1. Teach children to love, to be a man, to do things, and then to be a man. Personality trumps all influence and money. Therefore, parents should first pay attention to the shaping of their children's character: be generous, not petty, be kind to others, be good at being lenient with others, and be a colorful person with emotional intelligence; Don't be proud of your achievements and don't be discouraged in the face of difficulties; Create a sincere, upright and optimistic character.

2. Start from me and shape good habits. "Excellence is a habit." If you study well, it will be very easy and efficient. Therefore, it is necessary to educate children to play after finishing their homework, to do their homework with heart, and to have fun while playing. At the same time, it is necessary to train children to do something meaningful from an early age, and pay attention to shaping children's habits of communication and hygiene.

3. Give exercise opportunities and improve self-confidence. Don't always think that children are young, too many things have not been done well or you are not at ease. In the face of difficulties, children can be reminded to use their brains or encouraged to practice activities. According to exercise, children can gain confidence and improve their self-control ability to overcome difficulties. Sometimes you can set up some small obstacles for children to deal with themselves, so as to shape their ability to do things and solve problems independently.

4. Set an example and master the process of children's growth. In fact, many words and deeds are imitated by parents, so parents should pay attention to their words and deeds in front of their children. Children are often encouraged and helped, and there is no doubt that they are developing. When they encounter setbacks, they should be guided, help children analyze the truth, find existing problems, and exercise their psychological endurance and psychological balance. In the process of educating children, we also need to look at the right time, place and people, grasp the best opportunity, and don't hurt children's self-esteem.

5. Emancipate your mind and leave some indoor space to play. Children are children. Playing is children's nature. Playing can also be smart, and it can also shape children's social media ability and literacy. Leave some time for children to play, take them to the wild for holidays, or go to the park, or climb mountains, or exercise, so that children can let go of their hearts, increase their knowledge and relieve their work pressure. A happy mood will bring many benefits to children in life and study.