First of all, the original intention of fatherly love is different. For Bai Jiaxuan, it is the land that he has been waiting for all his life. With the land, his heart is at ease, so his expectation for his son is to continue waiting for this land and wait for Bailuyuan! And influenced by his brother-in-law, Bai Jiaxuan thinks that a gentleman should do great things. This event is not an immediate event, but a long-term event. This is what he pursued all his life, changing everything in a subtle way. He hopes that his son can receive Confucian education and become a talent who can do great things like his brother-in-law. Unfortunately, filial piety under feudal education has finally been distorted!
For Lu Zilin, the biggest pursuit of his life is to worship his ancestors, be an official and be a big official! There hasn't been a scholar in their family for generations, and his old father said on his birthday that his ancestors told him that if there was a promising scholar at home, he would put three pickaxes in front of his ancestral grave to show his glory. Therefore, Lu Zilin put all his eggs in one basket, let his children study, read profound books, and let them become big officials. Only the further they go, the greater the hope of becoming great men. Therefore, Zhao Peng and Zhao Haidu went out to study!
Secondly, children receive different education methods and concepts. Lu has been a very wise child since he was a child. He likes reading, but he doesn't read dead books. Reading can make him understand and increase his knowledge, but it will not bind his mind. So when he grows up, he wants to broaden his horizons and needs a broader sky! On the other hand, Bai Xiaowen was cute since childhood, but he was too bound by his father and the feudal society. His mind is completely locked in that cage and he can't get out! Filial piety is taught in xu teacher, and it is a dead book. In order to be filial, being a teacher or finding a business that can earn money without hard work is the highest pursuit of life! Therefore, in terms of the educational methods and concepts accepted by children, the road they will take in the future has long been doomed!