0 1 these three kinds? Negative energy? Dear dad, it is not conducive to the growth of children. I hope your family doesn't.
1)? Male chauvinism? Dear dad
Although social progress has obviously improved the status of women, some people still keep it. Men are superior to women? Traditional ideas.
So what? Male chauvinism? Dad will appear in society, no matter big or small, he has to make a decision, showing a kind of? Supreme? State.
The existence of such a father will lead to the inequality of the status of husband and wife in the family, and this thought will also exert a subtle influence on the children, thus affecting their personality and even their later life.
2) put your own? Incompetence? Pass it on to children.
As a man, there is no doubt that he should take responsibility in the family. Even if you don't work hard outside, you should take care of your family and give your family and children a relatively stable and happy life.
But some? Negative energy? My father is not only lazy, but also knows this? Incompetence? Take it out on children and family.
Whenever a child needs money, he will be very angry and say, What's the use of asking for money to support you? ? Such a father will burden the children and make them think that the poor economic conditions at home are their own fault.
Over time, children will take money seriously and think that all happiness should be related to money, which will also affect their future values and friends.
3)? As steady as Mount Tai? paternal love
In order to earn money to support their families, many fathers set aside more time to work every day, so they spend less time with their children. This is actually a very normal phenomenon.
But the problem is that some fathers don't even want to accompany their children when they are resting, but choose to lie down and play mobile phones, play games or brush videos.
When the child asked his father to play with him, his father just replied impatiently: I have no time. Go find your mother. ?
The above three? Negative energy? Fathers are actually very common in life, but I don't know why, many people think this is a normal phenomenon, and some even take it for granted.
02? Negative energy? Dad is the lack of fatherly love, which also reflects people's prejudice against motherhood.
1)? Men are in charge and women are outside? The traditional concept of
In the traditional concept of the older generation, men should go out to work hard and women should stay at home? Couple? This is what a normal family looks like.
So this idea led to? Negative energy? The emergence of fathers, in the eyes of these fathers, taking care of children is only a mother's business, and has little to do with themselves.
But in family education, the responsibilities of both parents are indispensable. If there is no father's love, even if the mother pays more love, it is not omnipotent.
So, in the traditional educational concept, people are right? Maternal? Prejudice is one of the important reasons for father's dereliction of duty, and what makes it? Slag dad? The culprit of the epidemic.
2) Is the child the mother's? Meat?
Mothers bear the responsibility of giving birth to children, and the children were conceived by mothers in October, so mothers usually pay more attention to children than fathers.
On the other hand, it's hard for dad to understand this? Lose meat? Pain, so the understanding of the role of father will be slower, if no one urges him, these? Negative energy? It is difficult for a father to enter the role and assume his own responsibilities.