For example, my friend and children go shopping together, and the children don't want to leave when they see the toys, so my friend says that I will leave if you don't leave, and the children will leave immediately after hearing it, because they are afraid that their mother will leave her here alone and feel insecure. As long as parents say go, they seem obedient, but in fact they have no confidence and security, and they will become timid. When I was a child, I would be an obedient child, but what about when I grow up? When I grow up, I have no self-confidence, because I feel that my parents will not indulge themselves without backing, so I am particularly sensible. Therefore, exploratory education is not desirable.
In fact, when you were testing, you were also lying. You are not interested in children's things, but you still want to try their reactions. The child is not stupid. The first time I knew I was lying to her, how did I get cheated the second time? This kind of behavior will meet children. For example, problem children doesn't know anything. If parents don't pay the bill, children will feel that they don't have to pay the bill to follow the school, which is not conducive to their growth. Therefore, exploratory education is not desirable. Parents are role models for their children, so we should show them some positive and sunny aspects, not some negative and misleading aspects that are not conducive to their growth.
In a word, I don't support the mother in question. Because the mother is setting a bad example for the child, which is not conducive to the child's growth, but will mislead the child and make the child feel insecure. Exploratory education is not desirable. There are many such examples in real life, such as parents pretending to leave on purpose, parents telling me to take a bite, etc., all of which are exploratory education. Moreover, these exploratory education are not good for children's growth, so they are not supported to be used frequently.