1, parents should adjust their mentality.

Children's rebellion is a sign of growth. This is a normal growth process that must be experienced. Parents should adjust their mentality and don't want their children to make enemies during the rebellious period. Give children patience and care, help them get out of the rebellious period slowly, and don't force them to suppress their rebellion, which will only make them more reluctant to be close to their parents. Rebellious period, not so terrible, parents should be calm.

2. Communicate with children in advance to let them know about adolescence and rebellious period.

Give children popular science about the physiological and psychological changes in adolescence and teach them some coping skills and methods. For example, the skills of making friends and dealing with people are sincere, kind and polite. For another example, when the mood changes, remind yourself that it is the change brought by hormones, not your recklessness, depression and impulsiveness.

3. Parents should learn to put themselves in other's shoes.

Every parent has also experienced the stage of being a child, but due to different times, the rebellious period between parents and children may be different, which is not as obvious as that of children today. Therefore, parents should learn to put themselves in their own shoes and think from their children's point of view. After understanding the child, the child will also understand the parents' intentions. On this basis, parents are more likely to accept and correct their children's education.

4. Give children space and respect them.

In the process of growing up, children gradually have their own thoughts and privacy. Children are independent individuals, not accessories. Isn't it that parents want to see their children have their own independent thoughts when they are cultivating their children? When he does this, why do you try every means to pry into his thoughts and privacy? Parents should learn to let go, give their children space and respect their decisions. Don't always impose your ideas on your children, which will only push them further and further.

Make friends with children and walk into their inner world.

Parents and children must establish a good relationship, whether it is father and son, friends or teachers and friends. Only by having a really good relationship with children can we better enter their hearts, understand and accept them, and at the same time give them the most basic needs and requirements. Therefore, being a good parent is very simple. The first is to be friends with children. Don't "I think" or "you think".

6. Actively guide.

Many parents habitually force their children to follow their own ideas in education and often preach to their children on the basis of empiricism. Everything I said is right. I'm your father. You must listen to me. You will regret it sooner or later if you don't listen to me. However, the more this kind of rhetoric, the easier it is to cause children's rebellious psychology. Correct guidance and letting children make the right choices are effective education.

7. Discuss with children more.

First of all, choice is a child's right. When you meet something related to your child, you should discuss it with your child and never make a decision instead of your child. Secondly, parents should give their children loose and free development space. Always discuss your views on various things with your children and affirm their efforts. Finally, parents should not play an all-round role in front of their children. For adolescent children, the first principle of education is understanding and respect.