Foreword:

Money can be said to be closely related to each of us. Most of the mistakes, pains, setbacks and injuries we make in life are related to money.

But unfortunately, few parents in life have the consciousness of cultivating their children to learn how to make money and manage their finances from an early age. Although many people around us always worry about money and try their best to make money, how many parents realize that the most basic abilities that should be mastered in this life should be included in the training and education planning of their children from an early age?

Teaching children how to make money from an early age is for the sake of our beloved children, who will be able to follow their own life path in the future. No matter when and under what circumstances, you can live your life well. Can be strong, independent, free and independent of anyone. I will not go astray in my life because of money, and I will even easily catch up with the happiness and future of my life.

On the road of life, never ignore or even underestimate the humanity of yourself and others.

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Zhang Ailing's famous work Fragments of Aquilaria Resinatum, the First Pot of Incense tells the story of a female student who hopes to live a good life in the future through hard work, but later finds a prodigal son who she loves but the other party doesn't love her, and supports her with laughter.

And this great change is only because I lived in a rich aunt's house for just two or three months.

Because, she can't let go of the rich life, she is eager for love. So I finally chose this road. On the surface, it is a high-class social butterfly, but in fact it is a high-class prostitute. By selling myself, I look the best of both worlds.

However, deep down, she despised herself:

At the end of the story, she was mistaken by drunken sailors for standing on the Princess. She laughed at herself: "After all, what's the difference between me and them?"

The man next to her wouldn't let her ruin herself with such words. She said, "All right, all right! I admit that I was wrong. Why is there no difference? They have to do it. I volunteered! "

She can see clearly, but there is nothing she can do about her choice.

Faced with their two desires, they know that they are wrong and inappropriate, but they are helpless. Finally, choose a choice: money and love, both of which will not give up.

But is this the life you want? Definitely not. But there's nothing I can do.

For her, maybe this is the best choice.

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A netizen anonymously shared his mother's story:

My mother grew up in a good family, and my father (that is, the grandfather of the netizen) came out to start a business very early and made a lot of money. So my mother grew up in a well-off family and had no worries about food and clothing.

In such an environment, mother enjoys her father's strong protection, and she also tries her best to cultivate her talents and other aspects. I don't worry about anything, so I grow up carefree.

So when I grow up, my mother is excellent in school, elegant in temperament, without any vulgarity, and her mother is already outstanding in appearance, so she has won the favor of many opposite sex. And my mother found a man who loves her deeply, cares about her and has the ability, as she wished. That is, the father of the netizen.

Although my father is so ordinary, even his family is not so good, it can be said that there is a world of difference from his mother who was born in a rich family. But my daughter watched her father spoil her mother since she was a child. This love can be said to have penetrated into every bit of life. She thought her parents would be so loving in this life.

However, the reality is always so unexpected. When she came back from college abroad, she found her parents speechless. Moreover, my father has a new home outside, a wife and children, and the children are already very old.

And this is not the most cruel. The most cruel thing is that the father who took over grandpa's career did a very good job in the company left by grandpa. But in the end, my mother got nothing, even my grandfather's inheritance. Because her other half has transferred all the assets of the company to his name at some point. At the time of the lawsuit, my father also said that the investment failed and there was no money in the account, only debt. At this point, the two sides divorced and the mother got nothing. Leaving only the big house that her real father bought for her and her mother. It can be described as spotless.

The evil of human nature can be seen.

In the face of all this, my mother, who grew up carefree in a family that her parents cared about very much, could do nothing but accept it helplessly and painfully. As a result, this mother, who was as simple as a blank sheet in the face of complicated things, suffered from severe depression.

The seriously ill grandmother also said "sorry" to her daughter with tears, regretting that she had protected her daughter too well since she was a child. As a result, my daughter has no strength to fight back in the face of the evil of human nature and can't protect herself well. She can only let the other side hurt herself without a bottom line.

Money is very important, but what is more important is our attitude and position towards money.

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Is money important?

Very important.

We can't live without money. Moreover, a person's humanity is also exposed to money.

It can be said that it is money that makes us understand the essence of life and see the true human nature.

Just like the heroine in Zhang Ailing's novels, before going to menstruation's home, she never thought that she was so longing for the life of the rich. I went to my aunt's house, and in less than three months, I was completely immersed in the life of this rich man.

But on the other hand, I am still looking forward to love. I don't want to give up my youth and love to get the wealth I want, like the rich aunt.

What are we going to do? I can't stop both. So I had to fold: on the one hand, I used my youth and beauty to deal with the upper-class circles; On the other hand, he uses the money earned by his body to support his so-called love.

And all this, even I don't like it myself, but I am willing.

This is the great magic of money.

Is there a problem? There is nothing wrong. After all, you can choose your own life as long as it doesn't affect others.

But is it worth it? !

Why are we so powerless in the face of money?

The true story that happened in the second-dimensional reality, let us see the truth of human nature again.

It can be said that no one can see who he is in front of temptation, or even himself. And money is the biggest touchstone and mirror of human nature in this world.

Moreover, in addition to letting us see the nakedness and cruelty of human nature, money may also make us reluctantly give up our bottom line:

An excellent female college student has dreams and pursuits, but she is trapped by her family-her father's business failed and she owed huge debts. In order to study and family, I have to help my friends subsidize myself and my family at a young age.

This is a real event.

It can be said that once money becomes e, it can easily crush our conscience, dreams, beliefs and so on, the most precious things in the world. Even let ourselves become demons and easily provide everything for it.

But is this the evil of money? No, it's not. At best, money is just a medium, which can make us live better and lead us to the abyss.

Just like in the best-selling book Qian Qian the Dog, the author borrowed a sentence from Mrs. Tao Mu:

The key is how we view and treat it.

Our attitude towards money is the most important thing.

It is really important to teach children how to make money and manage money.

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All along, our education seems to be ashamed to talk about money and money. Whether at home or at school. Most people are forced to learn money again after entering the society. And it's often too late.

After all, our life needs money, and we can't live without it: each of us needs money to buy basic food and shelter, grow up and educate, be healthy, and even dream.

As Mrs Tao Mu said in Qian Qian Puppy:

Money is so important that it is closely related to all aspects of one's life. Why don't our parents and schools pay attention to it? !

Children who grow up in this educational atmosphere only begin to understand and wake up after being severely hit in the face by reality. At this time, it is easy to go from one extreme to the other: do whatever it takes for money, and cross all the bottom lines. Eventually ruined himself and his family.

This kind of education can be said to be a failure education, even if the children are excellent. And there are not many such examples in life?

Moreover, our education has always been ashamed to talk about money, but it also has a drawback, that is, it has not taught children to understand and master the law of money, so as to learn to make money.

Only by blindly paying attention to propaganda and vigorously promoting thrift. But people are rarely encouraged to work hard and have the ability to make money. This may be related to the long-standing social atmosphere of valuing literature over business in China since ancient times.

Therefore, many people want to make money and have money, but because of their lack of financial knowledge, even a blank sheet of paper, they go the wrong way, are used by bad people, and even go astray.

There are several such people around me. I don't know how to manage money, but I really want to make money. On the spur of the moment, I went astray and was used by the dealer. I began to taste the sweetness, and I got deeper and deeper behind. At this time, the dealer also began to make radical efforts, but the person who tasted the sweetness for the first time did not want to give up and still continued with luck. In this way, the greater the loss. In the end, we will lose our parents' pension money and owe huge debts.

And such news can be said to be reflected in the newspaper every day.

Therefore, it is very important and necessary to teach children how to manage money and have the ability to make money from an early age.

At least we can ensure that our children can walk steadily and rationally in their later lives. Instead of being cheated, hurt and hit casually, we are easily tempted and will not pin all our happiness on others-however, such people can be seen everywhere around us in life. How pathetic!

Therefore, if you want your child to take a good life path in the future, please help him to have a correct concept of financial management, pay attention to financial management and learn to make money as soon as possible.

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Professor You Ergen Zimur, a famous child psychologist, wrote in "Self-reliance-Postscript for Adults":

Making money has many advantages:

1, let yourself live better, and even have the ability to help others live better;

2, do not rely on others, and will not sacrifice their precious things for this;

3, know how to treat money rationally, and will not pursue vanity excessively;

4. Live a more rational life and know how to cherish resources.

Isn't this the dream of our parents for the precious qualities that their children should have? Independence, self-improvement, independence, rationality and responsibility.

At this point, a news that "the deputy section chief embezzled public funds and gambled away for 2 1 year" jumped out. In fact, most of the setbacks and misfortunes in our lives are related to money: we can't make money, don't know how to manage money, and lack the correct positioning of money. It is this lack of understanding that makes us resist the temptation and take risks rashly, which eventually leads to irreparable disasters in life, harming ourselves and even our families for life.

Let children learn to make money and manage money from an early age!

In this way, he can walk steadily in his later life, and will not let his parents worry about his every step, or even be afraid. Because a person can make money and manage money, he already has a pair of wings that can protect himself and remind himself not to go astray easily. I can fly higher, do what I want with confidence and live the life I want.

Besides, both boys and girls should learn from an early age. For girls, this gives her independent confidence; For boys, this makes him have the valuable qualities of being responsible, rational, practical and responsible.

You have to understand that teaching children to make money is by no means a distant thing, let alone a tacky thing. It is a basic skill that every child should have before entering the society. Therefore, children should be trained in this field from an early age. Only by mastering this basic skill can children walk steadily and live up to your expectations and their own lives in the future.