When a China person is sitting in an office, if a stranger rudely barges in. We will shout rudely: What are you doing? If you meet another one with poor quality, you will even push him out.
When a foreigner encounters a similar situation, he will stop what he is doing and ask politely: What can I do for you? Those with better quality still meet with a smile. Please sit down and pour you a glass of water.
What can I do for you? There is a feeling of concern. To foreigners, this seems to mean that someone is finally willing to ask me for help. Not only hope that he can try his best to help each other, but even he will appreciate the opportunity that the other party has given him to help himself.
"What do you do?" However, there is a condescending tone of censorship, just like the government is to the people, JC is to passers-by, and the boss is to the subordinates. It implies that all along, I have not been appreciated by my boss, but have been scolded repeatedly and have no way to vent my bad luck. Finally, I came to a vent bucket. Unfortunately, I gave myself a chance to vent, treating each other as punching bags, subordinates and village tyrants. If the other party really wants something from others, it will be even more arrogant, arrogant and arrogant, so it will be severely examined and questioned. Even blasted out angrily, if the other party begged "Don't feel bad!" And then slammed the door. Those who are shut out of the door are really like people's officials, who are narrow-minded, feel inferior and leave angrily to Nuo Nuo and Nuo Nuo.
With this simple question, it is not difficult to see the modern differences between modern eastern and western civilizations and Chinese and western cultures.
In foreign countries, especially in the office of **ZF, it may be easier for strangers to get things done. In the United States, there is such a China student who went to the American Consulate to apply for an extension of his study abroad. This is a very simple thing. However, on the day of application, foreign students found that the Americans who applied for this application actually knew each other. So, they tried their best to please each other and repeat the scenes they met in Chinese restaurants. After that, the visa officer applied for a big painting, and then handed the application to another person. He said: "This gentleman has repeatedly said that we know each other, and his application was rejected by me. If there is any problem, please handle it. "
It doesn't matter whether this application is allowed or not. Importantly, this simple problem is complicated by China's inherent human logic. In the United States, especially in the organs of the **ZF, acquaintances and relationships are the most taboo. Once they meet an acquaintance, they will choose to avoid it, just like China judicial personnel trying cases related to themselves. The difference is that foreign countries choose to avoid voluntarily, while China requires them to choose to avoid by law.
We in China always want to find friends, establish contacts and rely on acquaintances. If there are no friends, acquaintances and important relationships, we will try our best to find the brother-in-law of his uncle's uncle's second aunt, which is a far-fetched relationship. It's better to have connections than no connections. This is the first preparation for China people to do things, especially when they go to the office. Never mind, it's always good! With the relationship, things are always much easier, at least the gifts can be sent out, and now that the gifts have been sent out, there is no reason why things can't be done. No, this is China's human touch, which is only distributed among acquaintances, friends and networks. This has changed the taste of human kindness. How can people be full of love?