Lu You, a great ancient poet, has a famous godson poem "Reading on a Winter Night", in which Lu You wrote: "The ancients learned nothing, and it takes time for people to get old. I feel that on paper, I never know if this should be done. " This poem has two meanings: one is to warn my son to study hard and study for life; Second, we should pay attention to practice, not just the knowledge in books.

Practice is the most important learning link, and no amount of book knowledge can replace practice. During the Warring States Period, Zhao Kuo, who had never had actual combat experience and was only an armchair strategist, was entrusted with an important task, which led to the annihilation of the Zhao army and left a profound historical lesson. The historical allusions of "talking on paper" inspire parents and friends: educating children should also pay attention to practice, and can't just stay in oral preaching.

Some parents spoil their children too much and try their best to "do everything" for them. The children want to do something by themselves. These parents are always worried that their children will make mistakes, causing losses or undermining their confidence. In fact, judging from the law of children's growth, it is not only inevitable but also essential for children to make mistakes. Many times, parents are so eager that they are not as impressed as their children's own personal experiences.

Parents who like to do everything for their children often ignore their subjective initiative and even regard their children as "robots" that need their parents to take care of everything. In fact, every child has a strong desire for self-realization. They are eager to grow up, eager to distinguish between true and false, right and wrong through their own actions, and realize their own life value. Parents are kind and willing to do anything for their children. In fact, children are ungrateful, just complaining that their parents have restricted their freedom and deprived them of opportunities for growth.

Therefore, in the process of educating children, parents should never care too much, let alone "do everything" for their children. On the contrary, we should "let go" children more. Even if we know that the child's idea is wrong, as long as it will not cause serious consequences, we might as well let the child try it himself and give him the opportunity to "try and make mistakes" constantly. Because children can not only distinguish right from wrong better through constant "trial and error", but also greatly improve their psychological quality of bearing setbacks.