20 12 on new year's eve, a 4-year-old boy wearing only a pair of underwear was running in the heavy snow. As he ran, he cried in tears, "Dad, hug me." But his father didn't stop there, but encouraged him until the child ran for more than five minutes, and his father made him do a push-up before letting the child put on clothes.
This is "Eagle Dad" He Liesheng's "Eagle Teaching" to his son. Y and yīng should be so strict with a 4-year-old child. What makes this "eagle dad" treat his son like this?
1987 After graduating from university, He Liesheng was assigned to a suburban school as a teacher. After seven years of hard work, he deeply felt that the educational model at that time was not in harmony with his educational philosophy.
1994, he resolutely quit his stable teaching job and prepared to go into business. However, Shang Demi
Facing the trough of life, he didn't feel depressed because of it, but became more and more depressed. With the help of his friends, he started his own business again. This time, he is more experienced and harder than before. Finally, he made a comeback, not only paid off his debts, but also became a successful entrepreneur.
In the eyes of others, he is self-motivated, can withstand failure and decides that one thing will go in another direction. His personality may be the basis of his "eagle teaching".
In 2007, He Liesheng's wife became pregnant. At this time, He Liesheng was 40suì, full of expectations for the upcoming children. But the accident came.
In February 2008, He Liesheng's wife showed signs of premature birth, and his son came to this world three months in advance. When dāng He Liesheng asked the doctor about his wife and son, the doctor said to him with a serious expression: "The adult is safe, and the child is in bad condition now. According to observations, he has left ventricular hemorrhage, low brain protein density, accompanied by jaundice, etc. The child is seriously deficient in xiān days and there is a risk of becoming cerebral palsy in the future. "
After listening to the doctor, He Liesheng felt like a bolt from the blue. The child he has waited for so long may become cerebral palsy in the future, and he can't accept the result. But things have happened, and now he can only think about how to help children change this fate.
Perhaps because of the children, He Liesheng has been particularly keen on public welfare since then. In May 2008 12 earthquake, 7.5 million materials were directly donated. Later, he also did a lot of public welfare activities one after another, donating money and materials, subsidizing students and expressing condolences to the elderly. He has been doing it.
Facing his son's situation, he quickly pulled himself together. In his mind, there is no problem that cannot be solved, and the method is always much more difficult. So, he began to make his son's rehabilitation plan, and at the same time began to try his own "eagle teaching" on his son.
He Liesheng, the "Eagle Education" of "Eagle Dad", believes that parents should train and exercise their children like eagles. In order to let the cubs learn to fly, the eagle will deliberately take them to high places and arch them down. At the limit of life, cubs will try to flap their wings and learn to fly.
The same is true of educating children. He believes that children should be given some frustration education instead of holding them in their arms all day.
He Liesheng named his son He Yide and had many nicknames. After learning a lot, He Liesheng began to study various parenting books and asked doctors for advice. Finally, he decided to give his son physical exercise.
On the tenth day after leaving the incubator, keep swimming a lot every day and keep the water temperature at 25 degrees. At first, many people cried with cold. His wife couldn't bear to pick up her son, but He Liesheng stopped her.
To this end, his wife had a lot of quarrels with him, and even almost divorced because of the children's Jiaoyao education problems. However, no matter how criticized and advised by relatives and friends, He Liesheng still sticks to his own ideas. But later, Duoduo gradually adapted to the water temperature of 25 degrees, and was able to play more freely in the water of 25 degrees.
In this regard, the doctor also said that children have strong adaptability. If you follow a scientific plan, step-by-step training can improve your physical fitness. But this is not suitable for all children. It needs to be trained according to the actual situation of children, and it can't be too demanding, otherwise it will have the opposite effect.
He Liesheng later made a detailed training plan for Duo Duo, and asked his wife to strictly follow the plan. He Liesheng has been studying and training Toto for six hours every day since he was six months old.
When Duo Duo just learned to walk, He Liesheng would deliberately create obstacles for him or suddenly give him a push. When he got up, he pushed him down again. Either put obstacles in front of him and let him cross them by his own efforts.
With such training, I can climb Nanjing Purple Mountain with He Liesheng at the age of two. Even if Duoduo was tired on the way to climb the mountain, He Liesheng wouldn't go with Duoduo, but stopped to have a rest and then continued to climb, insisting that Duoduo climb to the top by himself.
Besides, He Liesheng also learned a lot of martial arts, taekwondo, street dance and so on. It is mainly through these studies that a lot of brains have been exercised.
In this way, three-year-old Duoduo has learned more than 3,000 Chinese characters and learned mathematical addition and subtraction. He Liesheng took his son to an American kindergarten for three months in order to make him feel a different educational model.
According to He Liesheng, Duoduo was promoted to a large class in kindergarten in the United States in two weeks, and later entered a gifted class. The controversial video of streaking in the snow was also shot in the United States.
He Liesheng doesn't feel too much. On the contrary, he feels very proud, because his son has greatly improved his physique according to his training plan. I have never been to the hospital since, except that I lived in the hospital for a period of time when I was born prematurely.
At this point, Duoduo has been farther and farther away from cerebral palsy, and has also got rid of the shadow of early Ch m: N. At the age of 4, she streaked in the snow, participated in the Qingdao International Regatta and sailed independently, and spent 15 hours climbing Mount Fuji in Japan. Under the training of He Liesheng, his physical fitness has far exceeded that of children of the same age.
In 20 13, Dodo, 5 years old, accompanied by coach Shia, independently operated and flew the "Bee -3" plane for 35 minutes. In the second year, Duoduo and He Liesheng crossed the "Sea of Death" Lop Nur three times. In addition to the rich experience of exploring and exercising with my father, many learning experiences are also amazing.
20 17, participated in the self-taught examination of Nanjing University and entered the school to study sales management. After graduating from junior college, I was admitted to Nanjing University, majoring in human resources, 12 years old, and successfully obtained the undergraduate diploma. But this is far from over.
In 20021year, I completed the 12 MBA course in a university in Spain and successfully applied for a doctoral degree in a university in the Philippines.
The reason why Duoduo can learn so much in a short time has a lot to do with He Liesheng's educational philosophy. He didn't take his son to study all the subjects step by step. In his view, many subjects will not be used in the future.
In an interview, He Liesheng once said that in his mind, it only takes one year to learn all the knowledge in primary school and three or four years in junior high school, while subjects like physics, chemistry, biology, mathematics and even English are not needed in society, so he can not learn.
Now, he will train more in the direction of an entrepreneur. At one time, he asked for more newspapers to strengthen his so-called "financial and business mind." He is more educated by analyzing the position and service attitude of the booth, and pays attention to the weather, geography and people in business.
He Liesheng has planned almost all aspects of life, including making friends and falling in love in the future. At the same time, he also taught many people to share and be grateful. After getting up every morning, Duoduo is asked to say hello to his elders. When you are away from home, many acquaintances will take the initiative to say hello and praise Du Fang. At school, I often say "thank you" and "sorry".
Finally, He Liesheng said that he would plan every step for his son before he was ten years old. 10 to 16 years old. When making a decision, you can ask more opinions. From the age of 16 to 20, all choices are made. I am a consultant. After twenty years old, he will be proud of being a father and will be his backing.
When He Liesheng was first noticed by the public, people had different views on him. Many netizens were excited about him letting his son run naked in the snow, and called him "child abuse" and "unworthy of being a father" on the Internet. Of course, some netizens supported him, saying that children's physical fitness can be improved through such exercise.
One of his most controversial issues is that his educational ideas and methods for children are simply different. Judging from his achievements, some people expressed envy and admiration for the excellent son he has cultivated. From the process point of view, some people think that he is too anxious, depriving the child of a childhood and valuable campus life that he can only experience once in his life.
However, every parent has his own educational model and concept. The purpose of education is never to cultivate talents, but to let children grow up in all aspects of morality, intelligence, physique and beauty.
Every child also has his own way of growing up. Not everyone should take the road of Y and Y, as long as he is suitable for his children.
Just like proper physical training can really improve children's immunity and resistance, but the premise is to use scientific methods. Other hobbies can also enrich children's lives, but it depends on whether children like it or not.
The road planned by parents for their children seems legitimate, but it is not necessarily what the children want and suitable. In the end, the child will become an independent individual. When he leaves his parents, can he support himself independently? This is worth pondering.
Do you have anything to say about He Liesheng's "Eagle Education"?
(Pictures and story materials are from the Internet)
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