1. Observe children's performance: Parents should observe their children's performance at school and at home, including academic performance, behavioral performance and social skills. Through observation, parents can understand the advantages and disadvantages of their children and whether their education methods are suitable for their children.

2. Communicate with children: Parents should communicate with their children to understand their thoughts and feelings. Through communication with children, parents can better understand their children's needs and problems, so as to adjust their education methods.

3. Learning educational knowledge: Parents can learn educational knowledge and understand different educational methods and concepts by reading books and participating in training. This can improve the education level of parents and better guide the growth of children.

4. Reflect on their own educational methods: Parents should reflect on whether their educational methods are correct, and whether there are problems such as excessive control and neglect of children's feelings. Through reflection, parents can find their own shortcomings and improve their educational methods.

5. Seek advice from others: Parents can seek advice from other parents, teachers or professionals to understand their educational experience and suggestions. In this way, we can look at education from different angles and help parents better reflect on their own educational methods.