The six pillars include: 1. Reading, 2. Sports, 3. Housework, 4. Music, 5. Frustration education, 6. Punctuality (which includes the concept of honesty).
Because parents' ability and energy are limited, how to build all the plates under limited conditions? Every parent is full of expectations for their children from the age of 0. As children grow up, parents are constantly revising their expectations for their children. It doesn't matter what you think of your children. What matters is how much ability you have to build your child's ability disk.
Only when the methods and ideas of education are wrong can you know how to operate. This is one of them. The other is to look at the execution of parents.
In the educational practice of children, parents should be pragmatic and not shrink back. In the case of limited energy, we should do something practical. There are many good things, and we can't all win, so important plate construction must win from children.
The structure of these six plates is like the foundation of a house. As long as you have a good foundation, it is easier for children to build a tall one. You can build a richer structure.
The first is reading. The importance of reading should be known to all parents who attach importance to education. I won't say much about this.
The book "The Turning Point of Life" has already mentioned the importance of reading. Reading is a harbor, and reading can avoid the lack of parents' knowledge to the greatest extent.
Children seek knowledge and find their own way by reading themselves. Reading is very important for establishing self-intention. Children who love reading are likely to grow up.
A small detail that needs attention in reading is comics. It is necessary for children to give up the habit of reading comics early. About 7 years old is a watershed in reading, and children should be turned into pure text reading. In the fourth grade of primary school, children should pay more attention to pure literary works and lay a good foundation for Chinese. Comics will affect children's expressive power. For this part, please refer to the part about reading in the turning point of life. Children with good reading ability have obvious advantages in the high age of primary school. Reading is very important for children's growth. So this is the first priority.
So how to cultivate children's reading habits? From the age of two or three, children should gradually infiltrate. Just fix it for a while every day and accompany your children to read. Now, I watch The Story of wuyue in the Spring and Autumn Period with my boss every night, the first volume, dear Mr. Han Xiu. After I read two chapters with him, the children couldn't wait to read the rest by themselves. Second, I accompany 10 Chinese books every day. Children like it very much and listen to stories attentively. I calculated that there are 10 books a day, and after 100 days, children can hear 1000 books. If we continue to do this for one year, I believe my children will be completely independent of reading chinese in one year. When she enters independent reading, I will not give up the time for parent-child reading together. I will choose some good books to read to two children. Let this be the best memory of children's childhood. )
In the process of accompanying reading, broaden children's thinking imagination and let children have feelings for reading. When reading, you can discuss with your child to stimulate his new knowledge points.
The second is exercise. Many parents neglect sports. This sport is very important. Don't underestimate.
Anyone who wants to change habits and the status quo needs strong action and willpower to continue.
Exercising children from an early age is to change or establish "action power" and "willpower", which is an aspect that needs attention in early childhood. The health benefits of exercise are secondary. The significance of drunkenness lies in shaping children's spirit, dedication, fighting spirit, practical ability and tenacity, so that children can form a good temperament and outlook on life. The sports meeting will promote children's practical ability and flexibility.
Take children to exercise, pay attention to fun and sustainability. Flexibility and coordination are one of the concrete manifestations of motor cells. This is an aspect that needs attention in early childhood.
Taking children on the road can cultivate their balance ability. Recreational facilities can exercise children's physical flexibility and coordination.
The construction of a person's action power is related to sports.
Do sit-ups and push-ups every day. Do it before three meals a day. This is the simplest sport, not limited by the venue and players. It should be noted that there is an important principle in doing push-ups-the quantity is not important, but the quality of each action is important. To do one thing, the increase of quantity is the increase of ability. Actions need standards, which reflects the attitude of children. If you have an attitude towards one thing, you will be efficient.
Behind cultivating children is the education of values and attitudes. There is no hurry to increase the number of children.
One thing, the attitude you want to do well, as long as you want, with this attitude, you will certainly be able to do it. This can also be extended to the usual study and life.
If you want to do something, you must start at once, and the attitude of parents will also affect your children. If parents are so persistent in pushing a little thing, you can set an example and pass this quality on to your children.
What girls need to pay attention to when doing push-ups is that although girls don't need small muscles, push-ups can be stopped to some extent. The important thing is not to have a strong physique, but to have a child. She doesn't hate the simple spirit of doing push-ups. When children achieve this goal, they can change their projects.
The important thing of sports is not to make children strong, but to make children have a serious, persistent and persistent attitude to do something.
Education is sometimes like this. It seems to be a diversion. What you want to do is other qualities, not your own health.
The lack of sports training will make children weak in mentality and ability building, which is directly related.
Physical education is one of the big plates juxtaposed with reading. The interest relationship behind it is quite complicated, so we must pay attention to it.
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