When many parents talk about their children's "future", they always want to live a rich life with their children, thinking that this is the most valuable. However, people who truly understand people and their meaning don't talk about value here. They are talking about another level, the value of another realm, beyond the reality level. But the so-called realm also has the distinction of high and low purity. Some of them are relatively low, such as governing the country and leveling the world. Isn't it great value? But this value is still relatively low. "Aspire in Tao, virtue in virtue, benevolence in benevolence, wandering in art", what is pursued here is value, which is real value because it is pure value. Therefore, a person is not trying to train his children to make big money, take power and be promoted to a higher position in the future. It is not even because children are knowledgeable, talented, entrepreneurial and become social elites. In the final analysis, it is not that he is expected to rule the country and level the world, but that he wants to be a "man", and he wants to conform to the way of man, and this man's way is heaven, so he wants to "aim at the way." In this way, his life values gradually rose from animal nature to the purest realm.

And here is a key that ordinary people don't understand clearly. Most people know that people who aim to become social elites are more likely to get rich and get promoted. Many people aspire to become social elites, just for promotion and wealth. How to become a social elite? If you have knowledge and talent, you can become a social elite. So they only pursue knowledge and talent, regardless of promotion and wealth. But is it enough for a person with knowledge and talent to become a social elite? If you think it's not enough, you should add morality and wisdom, not for your promotion and wealth, but for his infinite value. He wants to "stand up for himself if he wants to be a man." In order to "make a career and become a useful person", we must not only have knowledge and talent, but also have a mind. So we can find that it is relatively easy to have knowledge and talent, but it is not easy to have such a mind of "cultivating talents". The harder it is, the more valuable it is, right? It is easy for you to buy a bucket of rice, but it is not easy for you to buy a cow. It is easy for you to buy a cow, but it is not so easy for you to buy a building. Doesn't this mean that the value of cows is higher than that of meters and the value of houses is higher than that of cows? If a person wants him to "cultivate talents", he must be a social elite, which shows that the value of cultivating talents is higher.

And the higher the value of this person, he must have completed a relatively low pursuit. Or go further, he doesn't care even if he can't complete the lower pursuit. Because the value, meaning and pursuit of life are not in a lower place, but in a higher place. So what do you think is the meaning of being a man? This is the most important key to how you yearn for it and how you educate your children. If you don't open this trick, you will waste yourself and your child. Therefore, people sometimes have to give up something. This kind of giving up is not giving up, but it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter whether it is there or not-but it must be. Why not simply do it? Why don't you do it more freely and openly? Ideals and virtues are designed for me, so we should take intelligence, elegance and clarity as the standard, while the pursuit of reality is designed for the outside, so we can have it or not. Is this uncomfortable? Aren't you a happy person? We cultivate children, that is, to cultivate such personality.

And the higher the value of this person, he must have completed a relatively low pursuit. Or go further, he doesn't care even if he can't complete the lower pursuit. Because the value, meaning and pursuit of life are not in a lower place, but in a higher place. So what do you think is the meaning of being a man? This is the most important key to how you yearn for it and how you educate your children. If you don't open this trick, you will waste yourself and your child. Therefore, people sometimes have to give up something. This kind of giving up is not giving up, but it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter whether it is there or not-but it must be. Why not simply do it? Why don't you do it more freely and openly? Ideals and virtues are designed for me, so we should take intelligence, elegance and clarity as the standard, while the pursuit of reality is designed for the outside, so we can have it or not. Is this uncomfortable? Aren't you a happy person? We cultivate children, that is, to cultivate such personality.