Nowadays, family education has become the focus of social attention. Although parents have made a lot of efforts in their children's education, we still have some problems and shortcomings. From my personal point of view, the following are some aspects that I think we lack in family education.

1. Lack of scientific educational ideas: In family education, parents often lack scientific educational ideas, often rely too much on traditional educational methods and practices, and lack targeted and scientific educational methods. Therefore, we need to introduce advanced educational concepts and methods, learn and master scientific family education knowledge, and improve our education level.

2. Lack of personalized education: In family education, we often ignore children's personality differences and characteristics, and overemphasize standardized educational models and methods. Therefore, we need to pay more attention to children's personality differences, formulate personalized education programs according to children's actual situation, and provide more intimate and effective education for children.

3. Lack of a good family atmosphere: In family education, parents often ignore the importance of a good family atmosphere for their children's growth. Family atmosphere is the foundation of children's growth and development, and a good family atmosphere can provide children with a sense of security, trust and self-confidence. Therefore, it is necessary to pay attention to the creation of family atmosphere, so that children can feel the warmth and support of the family.

4. Lack of moderate free space: In family education, parents often control their children's behaviors and thoughts too much and lack moderate free space. Children need some freedom and autonomy in the process of growing up in order to exert their potential and creativity. Therefore, we need to give children some free space to try their own ideas and methods.

5. Parents lack professional knowledge: In family education, parents often lack professional knowledge and skills in education and cannot effectively guide their children's growth and development. Therefore, we need to constantly learn and improve our professional knowledge and skills, and improve our education level and ability.

To sum up, we have some problems and shortcomings in family education. To solve these problems, we need to constantly learn and improve our educational level and ability, pay attention to children's personality differences and needs, create a good family atmosphere, give children moderate free space, introduce advanced educational concepts and methods, and provide more intimate and effective education for their growth and development.