Some children are wronged at school, and when they get home, they will sulk or cry directly in front of their parents. Therefore, when children come home and find that peace is different, parents should pay attention. Parents should take care of their children's emotions and correctly analyze and solve problems for their children.
First, correctly guide children to express grievances.
When the child is unhappy or crying directly, parents should first take care of the child's emotions and appease the child. When the child calms down, take the initiative to ask the child in a gentle tone: Did something unpleasant happen at school? Can you share it with mom? ? Create a relaxed atmosphere for children, and children will be willing to tell their parents about their grievances, so that parents can give their children psychological counseling correctly.
Second, let children put themselves in others' shoes.
No matter what grievances the child has suffered at school, come back and tell parents that parents can't go directly to the teacher, to the children who have conflicts with their children, or to directly educate their children not to associate with people who have problems with them in the future. But to tell the children correctly, this mistake may be misunderstood by everyone. You can think for yourself. Is it because you didn't understand others well in the process of this matter, so it will lead to your own grievances? You can put your child in other people's shoes. How would he solve this problem if you were him? Let the child become considerate, and the child will naturally not feel wronged.
Third, guide children to solve problems correctly.
If children are unhappy because they fight with classmates at school, parents should not teach them how to fight violence with violence, but let them understand why they fight with classmates. Do you have any misunderstandings with your classmates in this process? Therefore, it is necessary to correctly guide children to think and solve problems correctly. If children do the right thing, they will still be bullied by others, then at this time, they should be taught to protect themselves. If someone bullies him, he can tell the teacher.