Professor Zhao Ning, a writer and TV presenter, once said: In this world, some things are just words rather than actions, and some things are just words and actions. Only "sex" is between "saying" and "doing". Whoever has a good education and a little knowledge really knows that you don't know and I don't know. Some doctoral professors may only have elementary school knowledge.
Education is not directly proportional to sex education, which is the status quo. Especially under the influence of China's existing culture, most sexual topics are hidden and unknown. The Internet age has changed, but in essence, the development of sex education is still in the primary stage. By 2020, there will be about 560 million farmers in China. Most farmers have a relatively low level of education and know less about sex education.
In this context, sex education has become particularly important. Sex education is very important for individuals, families and society.
First of all, people who lack sex education are more likely to have physical and mental health problems.
You may be very familiar with women's menstruation, pregnancy, childbirth and men's nocturnal emission, but many people don't know that these phenomena belong to human normal physiological characteristics. Some parents have said little about their children's education in this respect. Sometimes, children will ask, but parents don't have the relevant knowledge and don't know how to answer. Sometimes, because I dare not say it, I will avoid the children's questions and tell them some false information.
If children get more sexual knowledge and can distinguish it when they grow up, there will naturally be no problem. But some children, because they can't distinguish these things, will eventually lead to psychological problems. Psychological problems often turn into physical symptoms and even lead to physical diseases.
For adults, both sexes have a lot of health knowledge, and they all need to know their sex lives. Improper treatment itself can lead to diseases such as reproductive system inflammation. Common is sexual dysfunction.
The most common sexual dysfunction in men is premature ejaculation and impotence. This is why it is forbidden to empty in front of men; The common sexual dysfunction of women is frigidity. Many sexual dysfunction is caused by psychological reasons, mainly from ignorance, fear, inappropriate taboos, superstition and misunderstanding of sexual and reproductive processes.
Good sex education is an important measure to prevent and treat various sexual dysfunction and other reproductive and non-reproductive diseases.
Sex education can be further studied from three aspects.
The first is the sociological aspect of gender, that is, to determine whether a newborn baby will get the gender role of "male" or "female"; Give a boy's name or a girl's name, wear boys' or girls' clothes and so on.
Then there is the psychological aspect of sex, which is to cultivate a baby to form a male or female posture, gait, mood and so on.
Finally, the biology of sex, through sex education, let children understand the development of youth, the anatomy and physiology of sexual organs, and so on.
Second, sex education can improve the happiness and stability of individuals and families.
The weak awareness of sex education has led to the emergence of a large number of people who lack sexual knowledge. Lack of sexual knowledge will affect a person's physical and mental health. It is not only related to one's own life, but also to marriage, family and society. Not any marriage relationship can bring harmony and happiness in sexual life and family life. The breakdown of marriage is due to disharmony in sexual life, which accounts for a considerable proportion. This disharmony may not only lead to personal unhappiness, but also lead to family instability and affect society.
The key moment of sex education is childhood and adolescence. Although the influence of insufficient sex education or wrong sexual concept often appears in adulthood, many sexual psychological problems are rooted in childhood and adolescence. Such as impurity, mystery, guilt, depression and so on. About "sex" is often formed in childhood and adolescence, and then it suffers greatly in the long years of adulthood.
Dr. Mary Carr Delong, the founder and former chairman of the American Committee on Sex Information and Sex Education, pointed out that the most critical and effective period for sex education is before the age of fourteen, especially before the age of five, which is conducted by parents or other relevant personnel. The training and education on "sex" received during this period undoubtedly determines all aspects of "sex" in children's lives.
Professor Zhou, a famous biologist and educator in China, has long emphasized that sex education is a very serious matter, which is related to the growth of teenagers and the future of the nation. Sex education should be paid attention to not only at school but also at home, so parents must have some knowledge of sex education.
Professor Wu Jieping, a world-renowned doctor of medicine and urologist, pointed out in a speech at 1988 that ignorance of sexual knowledge is sexual imprisonment, aiming at the actual situation in China. Talking about sex seems obscene and vulgar. Therefore, the importance of sex education is indispensable in terms of health, society and civilization construction. We should publicize confidently and break the imprisonment and ignorance.
Dr Yan, a professor at Taiwan Province Normal University, pointed out that sex is an important topic in life, and the relationship between men and women is a very important link in interpersonal relationships. The "sex" of human beings includes personal sexual knowledge, beliefs, attitudes, values and behaviors. Concern and interest in "sex" is a natural phenomenon for everyone, but for a long time, because most people remain silent and a few people talk nonsense, it seems "excessive" and lacks correct understanding.
Dr. Zheng, a famous expert in obstetrics and gynecology who has made great contributions to sex education, put it well: everyone, old and young, has different sexual problems, and many people even have sexual problems ... As a sexual creature and the spirit of all things, we actually need to learn the knowledge of "sex" and "love" all our lives, and we will never finish it.
At present, it is the general trend to advocate and carry out sex education, whether at school or in relevant social occasions. However, educators must first receive education. "Sex" is a complex topic involving many aspects and levels, with far-reaching and extensive influence. Talking about "sex" can't be fragmented. You can't just say one thing and not talk about another, especially the skills of sexual intercourse, not all aspects of sex and the overall situation of sex. In other words, we need "all-round" and "all-age" sex education.