1, check the parents' own problems first, for example, parents spend less time with students, and children feel that they don't care enough. Another example is that parents do not study themselves and cannot give their children a positive influence. Instead, they play mobile phones, games, poker and mahjong, and often transmit some information that is not conducive to learning. If you have these problems, you should admit your mistakes to your children, ask them to forgive you and resolutely correct them.

2, more contact with children's teachers and classmates, in-depth understanding of children's specific problems, sincerely ask teachers to make suggestions to help find the root of the problem, and then prescribe the right medicine, starting with the easiest problem, and gradually solve it.

3. Talk with children sincerely, put forward realistic hopes, let children find their own problems, combine the opinions of teachers, and solve easy problems first on the premise that children are willing. When children make progress, he will sincerely encourage them. Never praise without principle. Otherwise, when the child finds out that you are perfunctory, all your previous efforts may be wasted.

4. If the child has bad habits, such as playing games, playing games, procrastinating, etc. He shouldn't be too hasty, but should change it gradually and stimulate his inner motivation. There is a principle, don't force everything, don't force him to do what he doesn't want to do. Let him experience the fun of reading more and attract his attention with reading, especially interesting books. I believe that you will see the effect after a period of hard work, and it will be effective.