1. Stay calm and understand: rebellion is a part of children's individual development, and they will show their self-assertion and challenge authority. As parents, we should learn to remain calm and understand the changes that children are experiencing.
2. Listening and communication: actively listen to children's thoughts and feelings, and give children sufficient expression space. Establish good communication channels so that children can feel that their voices are valued and respected.
3. Respect children's independence: In the rebellious period of children, children want to make decisions independently and explore their own identity. Parents should respect their children's choices, give them proper autonomy and give guidance and help on key issues.
4. Make clear rules and boundaries: Make clear family rules and boundaries, and let children know which behaviors are acceptable and which ones are intolerable. Doing so helps to clarify the bottom line of the family and maintain family order.
5. Establish a positive reward and feedback mechanism: encourage and appreciate children's positive behavior and give positive rewards and affirmation. At the same time, when correcting mistakes, we should also give appropriate punishment or feedback in a rational and appropriate way.
6. Provide support and guidance: In the rebellious period of children, parents are still important supporters and guides of children. Give them emotional support and care, provide appropriate guidance and suggestions, and help them grow and develop.
Most importantly, parents need to treat their children's rebellious period patiently and lovingly. Although the rebellious period may bring challenges to the family, through understanding, communication and respect, parents can help their children get through this stage smoothly and establish a healthier and more stable relationship with their children.