When I was growing up, my parents didn't educate me in this respect. Maybe it's because they always have some resistance to this kind of education and don't know how to talk to me. In fact, this is understandable. After all, for my parents' generation, their ideas are relatively traditional, and they did not receive such education when they were young. Therefore, when their children grow up, they naturally feel that there is no need to give them education in this area. Many family guardians with daughters are very upset. Daughters are no worse than sons, relatively weak in society and vulnerable to all kinds of violations. Especially in the news, I am even more worried when I see reports of girls being abused. In order to protect your children, you must protect yourself first. Sex education for guardians is a necessary prerequisite. Let's investigate together.

How should parents give their daughters sex education?

1. Start as soon as possible.

When conducting sex education for daughters, we must seize the three golden periods of sex education as soon as possible. When I was 0~6 years old, I mainly had a preliminary understanding of gender, knowing that boys and girls are different, and telling them basic hygiene knowledge. For example, don't be good at touching your private parts, don't let others touch your private parts and so on. From the age of 7 to adolescence, I hope parents can tell their daughters how to protect their bodies and tell their parents in time when they are hurt. After puberty, we should choose the right time to talk about sex with our children, tell them what sex is and how to protect themselves during sex.

brick by brick

Sex education can't be completed in one or two conversations. Need a long time to communicate. Parents must master this degree and don't worry too much. Be sure to make a good start and build a good communication bridge with your children. Speaking of this, the child suggested that communication has not yet arrived and the communication method is incorrect. Parents should seek professional advice, listen to sex education courses, learn from each other and make adjustments according to their actual situation.

3. Don't be too tough.

Many parents have two extremes when facing their daughters. The first extreme is extreme doting, and the second extreme is extreme toughness. No matter which extreme, you should not be too tough in front of sex education. It is easy to deviate from the child's sexual concept by using the tone of lesson and criticism from the beginning. It is easy for children to have an aversion to sex and think that sex is dirty and evil, which is not conducive to her future development.

4. always pay attention to protect yourself.

Facing girls of different ages, it is very important to protect yourself. When you are young, don't let others touch your private parts. When you are old, you should know that you have to reject others' pursuit of you. At the age when you shouldn't fall in love and eat fruit, you'd better not try it easily. When you encounter emotional problems that you can't solve, you should actively seek the help of your parents and don't bear it alone. It's not your own fault to get hurt. Tell your parents to protect you.

5. Pay attention to the construction of three views.

Sex education should not only impart sexual knowledge, but also form three views. Some girls love vanity, like to pursue boys, and don't give boys clear information. Swimming between different boys is easy to get hurt. Parents should tell these girls to refuse if they don't like it, and don't covet other people's things. We should establish correct three views and maintain noble character.

Parents with daughters are always worried. Actually, it's normal to worry. While ensuring the healthy growth of children, we should also do a good job in sex education. Lack of sex education will bring serious consequences. These are all issues that should be paid attention to when conducting sex education for daughters. I hope it can help parents.

When I was growing up, I received education not from my parents, but from my school. That was when I was in the sixth grade of primary school and the second grade of junior high school. The school specially offered this course, which gave me a certain understanding of this aspect. Although the knowledge I learned in school is relatively shallow, it also ensures my healthy and happy growth to a great extent, so that I will no longer feel confused and confused in the process of growing up and be able to have one.

Now I have children of my own. Although my children have just entered primary school, when my children reach a certain age, I will educate them in this respect, so that they can truly realize their physical and psychological changes, face their growth in a more mature state, avoid all kinds of confusion in the process of growth as much as possible, and make themselves a self-growing person.

Qualified parents who are truly responsible.