According to psychology, the most important way to cultivate children's sense of security is at the age of 0~6. At this stage, as adults, we should try our best to ensure the emotional stability of the child's caregivers and their caregivers, ensure the stability of the child's growing environment, give the child unconditional love and companionship, and actively give the child information feedback. If adults do this, children's sense of security will be well established. When a child has enough sense of security, his heart will be stable, stable and strong. If adults do not grasp the sensitive period of each stage of children's development, it will lead to children's lack of security. In this way, children will rely on their parents, avoid problems, can't accept criticism, have difficulty adapting to the environment, have few friends, have difficulty trusting others, have a strong desire for control, feel unstable and have tense relations with their families.
If a woman's first marriage fails, her sense of security will often be hit hard. After that, she will be more likely to pay attention to other people's marriages, especially their failed marriages, so as to gain similar understanding, find psychological comfort for herself, close herself up and get enough sense of security. This will also lead to a vicious circle. Nowadays, more and more divorced women live alone, which also proves this point well.
In today's society, there are too many things that are more and more impetuous and materialistic, which leads to more and more pressure in people's hearts. A sense of security has become something that people need and pay close attention to. Especially for a woman, a real man and a real marriage make women feel less and less secure, which leads some women to fear marriage, which is normal in abnormality.
Women in fear of marriage must have enough sense of security if they want to have a happy marriage. On the one hand, this sense of security needs to be given by a responsible man, and more importantly, it needs women's own practical actions to change and actively strive for it. This sense of security is the truest, safest and most stable.
If women want to feel safe, they must live a good life, improve their quality of life and enhance their self-confidence. In order to have a sense of security, women must cultivate their independent ability and dare to act to cope with the difficulties and anything they encounter in their current lives. If women want to feel safe, they must improve their working ability, build their own ability to make money and save money, and don't panic if they have money. If a woman wants to feel safe, she must learn to refuse and dare to refuse, so as to reduce the chance of causing herself all kinds of troubles because she won't refuse.
When a woman's sense of security is improved, will she still be afraid of getting married? Of course not. However, marriage is not for one person, but also for men. If women want to get married and men want to get married, then men must provide women with enough sense of security, including money, understanding, support, sympathy, recognition and so on. Men must take responsibility for this.
As a man, you should give another part of women a sense of security. Are you ready? If you are not ready, I advise you not to step into marriage, otherwise, it will only bring harm to women! Don't let a woman get pregnant for no reason, it will only ruin a woman's life!