There is only one truth in this book: tolerance for feelings and strictness for behavior. Its subtitle is "Ways to Realize Real and Effective Communication with Children". This book has few theories and many examples. It can be said that it teaches parents how to communicate with their children by hand, which is suitable for families with children over 3 years old.
2. Love and freedom
From here you can read what is love and what is freedom. Sun Ruixue in Sun Ruixue Elementary School is the author of this book. She actively advocated Montessori education, wrote Montessori's views into this book, and used companionship and listening in teaching practice. This is a book that breaks the traditional concept of education. What is true love? Do you want your children to be free? ......
Don't think you know children's hearts.
The author not only expounds the scientific concept of education from the perspective of educators, but also expounds how to deal with various problems faced by children in their growth from the perspective of mothers. The cases in the book are very practical, close to life and source life, which provides a brand-new and typical collection of specimen cases for parents to cultivate their children.
4. The Secret of Childhood (Italy)
Dr Montessori vividly described the physical and psychological characteristics of children in detail. As a parent, it will be very helpful to read this book if you want to know the secret of children's growth and enter their hearts. Respect for children runs through the whole text, and Montessori has always emphasized this point: respect for children, fear of children, and children are the father of adults.
5. Child Psychology (UK)
This is a very introductory book on children's psychology, with professional content and simple explanation. Briefly talked about some psychological concepts and some common cognitive errors. For example, single-parent families will have a negative impact on children. The actual research data does not support this statement.
Extended data:
Early childhood education can also be divided into broad sense and narrow sense. Broadly speaking, all purposeful activities that can affect children's physical growth and cognitive, emotional and personality development, such as watching TV, doing housework and participating in social activities under the guidance of adults, can be said to be early childhood education.
Preschool education in a narrow sense refers to the education of kindergartens and other specialized preschool education institutions. Kindergarten education belongs to the school education system in China. Like school education, kindergarten education also has advantages that family education and social education do not have, such as planning and systematization.
Kindergarten education focuses on preschool teachers and devotes itself to publicizing the policies of the Party and the state on preschool education, reflecting the achievements of preschool education research and reform, exchanging experiences in kindergarten, nursery and family education, introducing information on preschool education at home and abroad, and providing information on preschool education activities and teaching reference materials.
The best period of intellectual development
According to American psychologist James, intelligence develops fastest before the age of 5. For a child aged 65,438+08, 50% of his intelligence was acquired before the age of 4, 30% before the age of 4-8 and 20% before the age of 8-65,438+08.
Studies by American physiologists also show that babies are the fastest period of brain physiological development. The weight of an adult's brain is about1400g, about1000g at the age of 4, and about1300g at the age of 8.
Japanese scholar Mu Shu Kuiyi pointed out that children's potential ability follows a decreasing law, that is, a child with a potential ability of 100 at birth can become a person with a potential ability of 100 if he is educated at birth, and a person with a potential ability of 80 if he is educated at the age of five.
This shows that the child's brain develops rapidly. In the period of rapid development of children's intelligence, the role of early education is also particularly great, because intelligence is closely related to education and social environment. If children are properly educated in the right way during this period, the effect can be imagined.
A critical period of sound personality
Early childhood education plays an important role in the formation of human personality. In early childhood, children's personality characteristics began to sprout and gradually formed. At this time, children have strong plasticity, and self-evaluation has not yet been established. They often rely on the evaluation of parents and teachers to evaluate themselves.
Parents and teachers say "good" is "good", and parents and teachers say "bad" is "bad". If children are properly educated and guided during this period to form good personality and quality, it will have an important impact on their life. On the contrary, if some bad personality characteristics or behavior habits are formed during this period, it will be difficult to correct them in the future.
The critical period of sex education
Children around 3 years old are in a special stage of sexual psychological development, which is called "sexual budding period" in psychology. If a boy thinks of himself as a girl and imitates her in dress, behavior and expression, he becomes a feminine boy. If a girl thinks of herself as a boy and imitates him in dress, behavior and expression, she becomes a masculine girl. This is called gender role deformity.
In short, children are a critical period for intellectual development, sound personality and sex education. In early childhood education, it is mainly to guide children to think correctly and cultivate a good learning mentality to cope with the difficulties and setbacks encountered in future study and work. Therefore, early childhood education is a lifelong event that determines the fate and happiness of life.