Communicating with the elderly and taking care of children and the elderly are problems for many families. Don't embarrass the elderly in front of the children, which will cause psychological burden to the children. The correct way is to communicate with the elderly alone, not in front of the children. We should calmly explain the disadvantages of doting on children to the elderly, and let them realize that doting on children is harming themselves. As long as the elderly understand the serious relationship, they will not interfere too much with their parents' care for their children. If your old man dotes on your children too much, it will have no effect on communication at all. It's better to carry the elderly when educating children in the future. As long as the elderly can't see the process of educating their children, they won't interfere too much. Many times, the elderly take care of their children because their parents use the education method of beating and cursing. They are afraid that their parents will protect their children if they hurt them.

If parents can change the way of education in time and don't beat and scold, the elderly will not protect their children. In fact, this is a common phenomenon in today's society. Many young parents live with the elderly, and children are usually given to grandparents. I usually don't have to worry about anything. Someone helps me clean up and take care of my children every day. Even three meals a day can be provided in different ways. My life is quite chic! But almost all young parents who live with the elderly have the same problem, that is, the elderly are too protective of their grandchildren when it comes to educating their children. In fact, I have encountered such confusion. Fortunately, my mother-in-law and I solved it very well.

The control over the children of the elderly is weakened and the common language is also reduced. The expression of love for the younger generation is easier to realize in the grandchildren. The so-called "playing tricks on grandchildren" is also the same reason; Grandchildren, after being caressed by grandparents, will be very close to grandparents and will soothe their loneliness. Descendants do not completely mean indifference to their children's feelings, but show their love for their children in the form of later generations. On the issue of educating children, all family members should reach a United front, parents should never be busy with discipline, and the elderly should follow suit. Parents and the elderly should reach an agreement through consultation, and it is best for the elderly not to intervene when disciplining their children.

Tell the old people that even if we don't educate our children in the right way, don't correct them face to face. You can say behind your back that you should be a child in front of your parents and let them know how to respect their parents. This will also prevent children from being lucky when they make mistakes. When they encounter mistakes, they don't know how to correct them. In the end, it is the children who suffer. Nowadays, many young parents are busy with their work, leaving their children directly to the elderly and becoming shopkeepers themselves. However, when the children have problems, we, as parents, discovered the problems left over from the intergenerational education, but then it was too late to worry. Therefore, no matter how busy you are, you should take time to spend more time with your children and parents. Children's education is our responsibility as parents, but it should not be pushed to parents.