With the development of society, many families have only one child, so they are especially protected, spoiled and protected under the wings of their parents. They are worried that their children will get hurt easily when they come into contact with others, so they will lock them up for protection and make them lack these opportunities for exercise. This method will gradually destroy children.

First, parents control their children.

Some parents help their children make decisions on many things, and this behavior affects their self-judgment ability. They have established extremely high educational rules in their family life. When children break the rules, parents will take high-handed measures to educate them, such as beating and cursing. Parents usually put their children online, make strict rules for their children to abide by, and control their children in the "safety circle" recognized by their parents to avoid their children being hurt. Most of this way will lead to tension between parents and children. Parents tend to suppress their children's inner true thoughts, and the emotional communication with their parents gradually decreases.

Second, parents are soft on their children.

Parents are too soft-hearted to discipline their children, and they are also a kind of "captive" to them. Parents don't want to prune this tree and let it grow naturally, so this little tree will grow more and more crooked. Children's unreasonable demands will be demanded from their parents in various ways. If parents don't insist, children will gradually become uncontrollable. A person can't even control himself, and there will be no good development in study and workplace in the future.

Third, parents dote on their children.

Parental doting is also a way to imprison children. Parents always protect their children's safety and keep them away from the outside world, so children can never be independent. Parents rarely refuse their children's demands, especially the one-child families. Parents dote all the time without boundaries, making children feel that everything is taken for granted. Children who live with their parents' doting will become selfish, lazy, undisciplined and only know how to take.

Parents should establish a happy channel for their children, make them happy, let them experience the beauty of nature more, and let them have a healthy childhood.