18-year-old son scolds his parents. Do you know what to do? Every child will go through a rebellious period, and at this stage, he may contradict and not understand his parents. So, here's what my 18-year-old son did when he scolded his parents.

/kloc-What should a 0/8-year-old son do if he scolds his parents? 1. Stay calm. Don't scold the child, or even hit him, because I guess you never hit him when you were a child, or rarely hit him. At this time, the time for you to hit him has passed, which means that you missed the opportunity to educate your children with "hitting". On this issue, I think it is also necessary for a child to "hit" properly when he is young. If he makes a serious mistake, it's all wet. At present, when the child scolds you again, don't scold him. Wait for him to calm down and reason with him calmly.

2. Educate yourself or ask relatives to educate your children. To be clear: parents work hard, parents love you, and parents also need the love, care and understanding of others. Need more education.

3. Ask children for advice when they do things. If the child doesn't want to do it, ask him how. If he does what he says and succeeds, he will be very happy and feel that his parents value him very much. It would be better if he failed, and he would think that maybe his parents were right. What should be noted here is that you know what the child said is wrong, but in order to save your child, let him go. If he doesn't speak his mind and do what you ask, it means that the child is in danger. He is not even in the mood to take care of his parents, let alone respect them. So do this three times, one word "hit". Pay attention to "so three turns"

In short, in order to fundamentally resolve the child's rebellious psychology, parents must do a good job in communication with their children and fully care, love and respect him. Parents should have their own principles, and your principles cannot be changed, especially because of him. When educating such children, we must achieve the "three first comity" and make full use of the principles that everyone must abide by. Okay, I wrote this. I wonder if it will help you.

/kloc-How does a 0/8-year-old son scold his parents? How do parents deal with their children's rebellion?

Communicate with children more.

Create more opportunities to communicate with children. Rebellious children don't like too deliberate conversation, especially educational conversation. The fact is, you should be more involved in children's world, communicate with children in play and entertainment, communicate with children through things they are interested in, and use these things to integrate your thoughts.

Don't try to deny the child's idea.

There must be some differences between rebellious children and their parents, but don't try to deny their ideas. It is necessary to discuss with your child calmly the ways to solve the differences between the two sides, and the child also has the ability to judge. If there are big differences between the two sides, parents should not be too anxious, and slowly explain to their children with patience and facts. Narrow the gap and try to avoid too many conflicts.

Talk to children as equals.

Think of yourself as a friend of your child and talk to your child on an equal footing. Listen to your child's heart. When children open their hearts to you, listen patiently and avoid nagging in front of them, which will kill their patience in communicating with you. Adolescent children's patience is very limited, and it is easy to become impatient and impatient, so parents should give their children enough patience at this time.

After your child confides in you, give appropriate advice, but don't force your child to accept your advice, let the child think for himself, and emphasize to the child that if they need the help of their parents, the child will feel respected, so that the child will continue to confide in you next time he encounters troubles.

Understand children

Many times, children's rebellion comes from the mutual incomprehension between children and parents. When children are too rebellious and have a headache, why not put themselves in each other's shoes? If you were a child, would you feel the same way? If you put yourself in the child's shoes, you may have a great understanding of the child's psychology, so the means to deal with the child's problems are relatively mild. Although the child is rebellious, he can still feel who loves him. Therefore, understanding is the best weapon to solve the contradiction with children.

/kloc-What should a 0/8-year-old son do if he scolds his parents? 3 1. Mothers usually spoil their children too much.

2. interfere with your son's affairs too much (including making friends and arranging every detail of your son).

3. unable to communicate with children (like to attack and ridicule children).

How to educate a boy 18 years old who doesn't respect his parents?

1. First, parents should confirm the number of times their children scold you. If the number of times is relatively small, you can communicate with your child, reduce the misunderstanding of your child, and let your child know your love and concern for him. If the child often scolds you, it means that the child is disgusted with you. At this time, parents need to reflect on themselves from words and education. Children who spoil their parents too much usually don't take them seriously. They think that parents serve themselves and I am the boss. They are not allowed to interfere in anything I say.

2, since doting can't get the child's gratitude, but it makes the child disrespect himself, then parents may wish to change their way, belonging to their own family affairs, no longer arranging, and no longer giving pocket money. If the child can't stand it, call names again and even fight with you. At this time, gratitude education and strict education are useless to children. Children who can beat their parents can change their psychology in one or two ways unless they experience setbacks in the future.

3. It has reached the age of 18, which shows that the children's problems are not formed at one time, but caused by the accumulation of time and parents' failure to find them in time. If you want to change your child's violent behavior, you must make some efforts, and parents may not be able to solve it completely. Sometimes it is necessary to consult relatives and friends, or educational institutions and militarized schools to deal with it.

18 years old is an important turning point for children. If parents do not guide their children well at this turning point, it will be a lifelong problem for parents. After all, this problem has not been solved, which has greater hidden dangers for their children's future.

18 can beat his parents, so in the future, he will also beat his classmates, colleagues and wives.