If you don't pay attention to children's sex education, what are the hazards? 1. The child is in a situation and doesn't know how to deal with it.
Many parents think that this is not a good thing, so they will deliberately let their children avoid contact. And this situation will actually lead to children's lack of knowledge in this area. If the child has some dangerous situations, then the child can't handle it well. This is likely to lead to a very serious problem, which will eventually lead to irreparable consequences.
2. Puppy love will lead to premature sexual behavior.
Children are very curious. Both boys and girls are interested in this aspect and are curious after puberty. Nowadays, social thoughts are more and more open, so for these adolescent children, they are very willing to explore by themselves. According to a survey, children's puppy love has been mentioned as 12 years old, and then they will have sex at 17 years old.
3. The occurrence of abortion
Because puppy love will make some children have sex prematurely, in this case, if sex education is not perfect and you don't know how to take some measures, then in this case, it will easily lead to pregnancy. Faced with this situation, some children will choose to hide it because they are worried that their parents will know. Children will secretly go to some informal hospitals to choose abortion, but this will have a certain impact on their physical and mental health, which is likely to lead to the problem of not being pregnant in the future, and some will even endanger their lives.
As parents, how can we guide children correctly? Don't deliberately avoid them.
In fact, I believe that every child will ask his parents where he comes from, and many parents' answers are picked up. Because parents find this problem difficult to talk about and don't know how to explain it to their children. In fact, when children ask this question, it is actually the best opportunity to educate children. At this time, parents can learn more about this knowledge for their children.
Children can receive education through books.
In fact, for students, there are special physiology classes in this area. In addition to students taking physiology classes, there are also many books on this subject in life. Therefore, you can buy some books in this field for your children to learn more about this knowledge. With this knowledge, you will let children understand this aspect more intuitively and reduce some bad things.
3. Parents' mentality should be adjusted.
As parents, we must adjust our mentality, and don't think this problem is a very low-level one, because it is a key issue now and needs children's understanding. Every parent is in transition from this period, so we should be able to understand the child's current psychological state. From the child's point of view, think more and give the child correct guidance.
4. Understand children.
In fact, when children are in adolescence, they will do things that many parents don't particularly understand. For example, some children prefer to watch some adult videos or some pictures. When parents find these behaviors of their children, they will order them not to do such things. In fact, at this time, parents should calm down a little, and then try to understand why children choose to do such things, and I think parents must communicate with their children more, and let them know what they can and should not do through communication.
Finally, sex education is not a difficult thing to say. As parents, you must not wear colored glasses to see it. He is the same as the math Chinese we usually learn. We must put our minds right and then give our children a correct guidance. In this way, children will not go astray when they grow up.