True happiness education should be under the framework of part of exam-oriented education and academic education, under the premise of ensuring diligent study and academic performance, giving children more heartfelt companionship, and at the same time leading children to experience different lives, environments and concepts, so that children can improve their thinking and knowledge level while recognizing and feeling the outside world. The most important thing in educating children is rationality, tolerance and care. It doesn't mean that parents take a pure exam instead of their children or make an extreme choice of pure happiness. Children's lives will be happier than their peers.
Moreover, most children who learn bullying are particularly good at learning, but in the workplace and business, they are often caught in a job dilemma with excellent resumes but poor performance because of poor communication and disagreement.
This shows that children can only learn knowledge theory and problem-solving methods in exam-oriented education that pays too much attention to rote learning, but they cannot have a more comfortable, free and laissez-faire emotional life like children under happy education. 1. Excessive pursuit of "happy education" is not good for children.
There is no absolute eternal happiness in the world.
As children grow up, the challenges they face are also increasing. As a parent, I hope that children's happy mood can be understood, but this is unrealistic. There is no absolute happiness when growing up. Imagine if we were children and were cared for by all kinds of toys when we were young, and we were really happy. We suddenly went to primary school, so we have to sit tight in class. What the teacher said is not funny at all. There are a lot of boring homework waiting for you to do every day. If we are not careful, we will be criticized by our teachers' parents. How would you feel?
Now I swear that as long as children are happy, but in the educational environment of China, how long can you insist on putting children's happiness first? I even thought that when children go to school, every day at home is a scene filled with smoke. Parents' eyes are very important. If you only stare at the happy times of the previous years, it will be the children who will suffer in the future.
I hope my children will be happy forever, but is this realistic? The present happiness may become the source of future pain, and it is their parents who make them happy.
Thought of here, I feel sad. Children are not absolutely happy when they grow up. They will face one challenge after another. As parents, our task is to plan ahead, and we can't let our children fight unprepared. Seize every educational opportunity to help them improve their skills. Children will be more adaptable to the environment and will be happier in the future. Do not take the word "knowledge" too seriously.
In our view, knowledge is what teachers teach us in class. When it comes to teaching children knowledge, I think children are too young and parents are too impatient. As we all know, children are learning new knowledge every day in the process of growing up, which parents can't stop, and we shouldn't stop it. Most of the knowledge that children master is acquired through games, not by rote. Since all the knowledge you have learned can be digested, why should we talk about "pulling out the seedlings to encourage them"?
Furthermore, when children are young, it is of great help to cultivate their concentration and reading habits for future study. Good study habits are not developed overnight, and parents and children need to adhere to them together. Let nature take its course doesn't mean inaction.
Let nature take its course, it should conform to the development law of things themselves, rather than doing nothing as a promising thing.
It is right to make children happy, but we must have the ability to ensure that they will be happy forever. If they are carefree when they are young, they will face all kinds of scenes when they get to school, which is cruel to children. As parents, we should think carefully about whether we really want our children to undergo such great changes. Can't we do something about it? Although children have developed good qualities and habits, what should they do if they have not stood the test before exerting these advantages? Parents' inaction is unfair to children. If they don't work hard, they will only be blind in primary school.
In first-tier cities, many parents will make plans for their children's future, including when to start English enlightenment, how to carry out popular science enlightenment, and how to arrange daily study schedules. They didn't force their children to study, nor did they ignore their development level, memorizing knowledge by rote. They carefully choose teaching materials and resources suitable for children and guide them to learn knowledge in a way that children can understand; They pay attention to children's interests and let them guide the development of their abilities. There is a good saying: you can't bear to let your child suffer, and the world will make him suffer more.
When parents block all the wind and rain for their children, children become flowers in greenhouses and ornamental fish in fish tanks.
Family should be the source of stimulating children's potential.
We are glad to see that in this special festival, children have learned to cook, do housework, be filial to their parents and settle down to study. ...
Life has no greenhouse. The sooner children know the truth of being a man, the sooner they learn to live independently, which is beneficial and harmless to their growth.