1, try to understand others instead of scolding them; Try to put yourself in their shoes and think about why they did it. This is much more beneficial and interesting than criticism, which makes people feel sympathy, patience and kindness.
A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never succeed in big things.
A cheerful businessman should have two advantages besides cautious habits: agility and not following the crowd.
I want to cultivate courage and do more things you are afraid of until I have accumulated a lot of successful experience. This is the fastest and most effective way to overcome fear at present.
5. Only 15% of a person's career success is due to his professional skills, and the other 85% must be tolerant of interpersonal relationships and external skills. Soft and hard are relative. Professional skills are hard skills, and communicative skills that are good at dealing with interpersonal relationships are soft skills.
6. When the opportunity is presented to you, if you can seize it firmly, you will succeed in nine cases out of ten, and those who find opportunities for themselves will win 100%.
7. Is it as important for us to like ourselves as it is for others? Psychologists say that if we don't like ourselves, we can't like others. Some people are tired of everything and hate everyone. In fact, this shows that they have no confidence in themselves and have a strong tendency to give up. Carnegie's positive energy: live a new self
8. In fantasy, we allow ourselves to go our own way, and these roads depend entirely on our hopes and fears; Depends on the realization and disillusionment of our natural desires; It depends on our likes and dislikes, likes and dislikes, disgust and resentment. Nothing in the world interests us more than ourselves. Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
9. If you want to be a real person, you must first be a person who does not blindly follow the trend. The integrity of your mind is inviolable. Young people or inexperienced people are often afraid of being different and try to identify with their own circles, whether they are dressed, behaved, talked or thought. When we are in a strange environment and have no past experience to refer to, the best way is to meet the standards of ordinary people until our experience and confidence are enough to give us strength, and then we can act according to our own beliefs and standards. Time will let us find our own value system ... The Complete Works of Dale Carnegie's Human Weaknesses.
10, one cannot live without life, and the content of life cannot make it meaningless. When you do something and say a word, no matter how big or small, you must make a plan first. Ask yourself first, is it meaningful to say this sentence after doing this? You can do this, which is the beginning of laying the foundation for struggle. Dale Carnegie
1 1. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others that requires time, energy, care and dedication. Carnegie
12 Napoleon had everything that ordinary people sought-glory, power and wealth-but he said to St. Helena: I have never had a happy day in my life. Helen Keller-blind, deaf and dumb-said: I find life so beautiful. Carnegie
13, the average person pays more attention to and cares about his name than all the names in the world combined. The first lesson for political scientists is to remember the names of voters. Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
14, 1. The desire for friendship is limited to establishing a satisfactory relationship with others. In fact, this is a typical lonely mentality. Unlike many people, this idea is actually putting the cart before the horse. I want others to like me, but I am too lazy to let myself like others. 2. We should feel the feelings of others and understand that hurting others will also hurt ourselves. If we are going to bring sincerity into our relationship with others, we must get this feeling of sincerity. 3. The best way to impress people is; Talk to him about his most precious things. When you do this, you will not only be popular, but also expand your life. 4, don't suffer people you don't know, and neither can you. Carnegie's friendship is the sunset of life.
15, don't expect others to be grateful, you just need to enjoy giving! The Complete Works of Carnegie's Success
16, I don't know how many times more dangerous a lazy heart is than a lazy brother or sister. Moreover, it is more difficult to cure lazy psychology than lazy brother and sister. Because we are doing a job that we don't want to be unhappy, all parts of our bodies feel uneasy and bored. On the other hand, if you are interested in this kind of work and are happy, then your work efficiency is not only high, but also you feel comfortable both physically and mentally. Doctors call it laziness, which is caused by improper labor and mental depression. Dale Carnegie
17, the secret of success is: "I don't say anyone is bad! And the benefits of everyone I know! As the teacher of the Youth League Committee said last time, we should talk about his advantages, not his shortcomings, where people can't see him. Don't speak ill of others, human nature is precious, and don't speak ill of others behind their backs. Remember! Many insane people find a sense of self-esteem in his madness that they can't get in the real world. Generally speaking, people with mental disorders seem to be happier than you and me. Since many people enjoy being crazy, why not? They have solved their problems. Dale Carnegie's Complete Works of Human Weaknesses
18, the flower sender dyed the fragrance by hand. Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
19, it's not the event itself that hurts people, but his views on it. Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
We will soon see that our views are not far apart and there are few differences, but there are many similarities. Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
2 1, I don't know what to do to make it different from what I have done. Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
22. When you get along with people, remember. We are not people who deal with theories, but people who deal with feelings. Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature
When you feel timid, ask yourself why I can't, since they have all succeeded. Carnegie
24. Respect others and make them feel important! The Complete Works of Carnegie's Success
25. Be an ordinary person with a firm belief. Carnegie
The above is about: Carnegie's inspirational quotations. Be a firm person and share it. I hope it helps you.
A famous motto of firm belief
A famous motto of firm belief
1, efforts will never deceive people, and one day you will find that your persistence has rewarded your expectations.
When you think you have done your best, it is often the starting point for others.
The last second has passed, and the glory of the past is only once.
Those who have achieved great success are either crazy or upset. If your passion can reach that level, it is not far from your success.
If you want to succeed, be crazy first and keep your mind simple.
6. Without hard work, the future can only be a dream.
7. Nothing is impossible. It depends on whether you do it or not.
8, strong, not in the face of sadness not to drop a tear, but to dry the tears and face the future life with a smile.
9. Persist when it is time to persist, and change with the same; Change it, change it, change it.
10, life is inevitably hit. However, what really knocks you down is your attitude.
1 1, you can't be born with beauty, you can only be born with inspiration!
12, life is full of hardships. This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths in the world.
13, if you want to be young and have no regrets, young people must dare to think and do it.
14, we are eager for success, and we must aim at success first.
15, if you know you didn't do anything wrong, then you can go on doing it.
16, live beautifully even if you are black and blue.
17, it is these ordinary lives that constitute a great history.
18, believe in yourself and everything, come on!
19, dazzling rainbow, always after the rain.
20, everything is not what you want, you must learn to help yourself when you are alive.
2 1, the premise of a person's luck is that he has the ability to change himself.
22, as long as you don't avoid, don't back down, the applause of life will eventually ring for you.
23. Successful people always have only one way, and unsuccessful people always have only one reason.
If you see a shadow in front of you, don't be afraid, it's because there is sunshine behind you.
25. The greatest achievement in life is to stand up from failure.
26. Without the fertile soil of struggle, the seeds of talents will not find the future of Chunhua Qiushi.
27. After a hard night, the street lamp received the comfort of the first morning light.
28. Always be prepared to live alone.
29. Fate is like a palm print in your hand. No matter how tortuous it is, it is ultimately in your own hands.
Don't wet the sun today because of yesterday's tears.
3 1, I'd rather keep making mistakes than do nothing.
If you want to wear the crown, you must bear its weight.
33. Live in the present and do it in the present.
34. People with dreams can't sleep, and people without dreams can't sleep.
35. One must win. Why not me?
Don't let emotions control your daily life.
37. Smile brightly even if you are disappointed!
38. Understand the past, live in the present and prepare for the future!
39. Be as eager for success as a drowning man is for breathing. You can't relax for a second, otherwise what do you think made you win?
40. Life can only move forward if it is created; Only adapt
A famous saying about firm belief
A famous saying about firm belief
1, society is like a ship, and everyone should be ready to steer. Ibsen
Only when people devote themselves to society can they find the meaning of that short and risky life. -Einstein
The value of life is not measured by time, but by depth. Leo Tolstoy
Life is not a pleasure, but a very heavy job. Leo Tolstoy
5, a person's life may burn or rot, I can't rot, I am willing to burn! Ostrovsky
6. As long as people have faith and pursuit, they can endure any difficulties and adapt to any environment. -Ding Ling
7. Being poor is a shame, and being ashamed is poor without ambition. Kun Lv
8. If you want to love your own value, you have to create value for the world. -Goethe
9. The ideal person should not only meet material needs, but also meet spiritual interests. -Hegel
10, no ideal, indecision, is a sad psychology. bacon
1 1 Therefore, those who are determined are also the heart of learning; As a scholar, this is also a question of determination. —— Wang Yangming
12. People who made great achievements in ancient times not only had talent, but also had persistent determination. -Su Shi
13, common cause and common struggle can make people have the power to endure everything. Ostrovsky
14, Dapeng winds up one day and soars into Wan Li. -Li Bai
15, people full of joy and fighting spirit will always welcome lightning and sunshine with joy. -Huxley
16, strong heart is not old, and you can still be a ghost when you are dead. -Lu you
17, all sentient beings, who doesn't love life? Love life, and then love groups. -Qiu Jin
18. A person's value should be judged by his contribution, not by his achievements. -Einstein
19, a person who can think is really a person with infinite strength. -Balzac
20. A person who is not motivated by dedication will never achieve great things. Chernyshevski
2 1. Hope is attached to existence. Where there is existence, there is hope, and hope is light. -Lu Xun
22. We judge people's activities according to their purposes. Only when the purpose is great can the activity be said to be great. -Chekhov
23. I have never regarded ease and happiness as the purpose of life itself-this ethical basis, which I call the ideal of pigsty. -Einstein
24. If you love life, you can play a good role in life. rodin
25. Life is empty and dull only in the eyes of plain people. Chernyshevski
26, life is really like this cup of spirits, without repeated refining, it will not be so delicious! -Guo Xiaochuan
27. The ideal of life is for the ideal life. -Zhang Wentian
28. Life is an outstanding person, and death is a ghost. I still miss Xiang Yu and refuse to cross Jiangdong. -Li Qingzhao
A word of firm belief
1. People who made great achievements in ancient times not only had talent, but also had persistent determination. After being misinterpreted by others, you can choose to be furious or smile. Usually, a smile is more powerful, because it will shock the other person's heart, and the exposed openness will make the other person feel small and ugly.
No one can guarantee that there will be no cloudy days, but at least it can be reduced. No one can predict the future, but as long as you have faith, success is just around the corner
4. Believe in yourself before others will believe in you.
Don't take for granted what is closest to your heart. Catch them as if they were your life. Because once they are lost, life will become meaningless.
6, strong heart is not old, dead can still be a ghost.
7. The originally full world is empty only because of your departure; Let my calm heart become anxious; But I can only wait for you to come back silently.
8. Starting from faith is a kind of motivation. No matter what you do, you must have the motivation to move forward. This driving force is a firm belief. We can't do everything perfectly, but as long as we do it with firm belief and try our best, then we have nothing to feel guilty about and regret.
9. There is a kind of love that is silent, and it pays because of a kind of hope. I hope the person I love is happier than me.
10, what is faith? Faith is the satisfaction that desert travelers can vaguely see the oasis; Faith is the joy of a marine adventurer when he accidentally discovers the stems and leaves of floating flowers on the sea; Faith is the excitement of track and field athletes when they cross several cities and see the finish line.
1 1. If you can still work hard and pay, don't stop and give up easily. Nothing really came true until the moment you stopped trying.
12, life should be like a candle, it is always bright from the top to the end.
13, the ideal personality should not only meet material needs, but also meet spiritual interests.
14, it is only a moment that determines a person's life and the whole destiny.
15, whoever goes to the dance academy will accomplish nothing; Whoever does not dominate himself will always be a slave.
16, heartfelt smile, neither supercilious nor supercilious, neither fooling the weak nor flattering the strong. A flattering smile is a fake smile, but a fake smile won't last long. Once they get the chance, they will take off their masks and show their true colors.
17, the ideal of life is for the ideal life.
18, to love your own value, you have to create value for the world.
19. Faith is a prerequisite for success. If you have faith, you can persist and adapt, even in the bitter environment.
20, the clear is self-clear, and the turbid is self-turbid. Sometimes it is unnecessary to explain disputes too much. Give a smile to those who deliberately and unreasonably slander, and let time tell the rest.
2 1, luck, you can't catch it in your hand, you will never meet it; Opportunity, can not be accurately grasped, always watching; Success lies in constant struggle and always full of hope.
22. The eastern sky has arrived, can spring be far behind? Personality sentence
When you feel sad and miserable, you'd better learn something. Learning will make you invincible forever.
24, people should control habits, never let habits dominate people, a person can not get rid of their bad habits, it is simply worthless.
25. The value of life is measured by its work for contemporary people.
26. People who have no pursuit will never make progress, and people who have no faith will never succeed in anything. As long as you have faith, no matter how many difficulties you encounter in the future, you can overcome them.
27. Destiny is in your hands, and the road is at your feet. See how you choose, what to leave and what to give up. Your choice determines your direction.
28. The road is trodden by people, and the history is written by people. Every move of mankind is writing its own history.
29. The road to art is full of thorns, which is also a good thing. Ordinary people are discouraged, except the strong-willed.
30. I never take comfort and happiness as the purpose of life itself. This ethical basis is called pigsty ideal.
3 1. Only those who have sunshine in their hearts can feel the sunshine of reality. If they are always sad, how can life be beautiful? Life is always a mirror, which reflects our image. When we cry, life is crying, and when we smile, life is smiling.
Genius is 99% sweat and 1% inspiration.
Silkworms in spring will weave until they die, and people will never stop. There is still work to be done. Make it a good category for young people.
When a person greets the light with his work, the light will soon shine on him.
35. There is no royal road to science. Only those who are not afraid of hardships and dare to climb upwards can reach the glorious peak!
36. We should praise the firmness of rocks. We should learn the hardness of rocks. We should have a firm belief in the revolution.
We can't all serve our motherland in the same way. Everyone should teach students in accordance with their aptitude.
Courage is the most precious of all human qualities.
Although the outside world can't grasp it, action can generate strength, and the source of this strength comes from firm belief! True faith can never be defeated.
40. Indecision without ideal is a sad psychology.
4 1, always have confidence in everything and always want to do it. If you do something and you are afraid that we can't do it first, then you have no courage.
42. When we encounter setbacks and get into trouble, as long as we have a firm belief in our hearts and work hard, we will certainly be able to tide over the difficulties and achieve success.
43. Starting from faith, it is a kind of possession. With it, no difficulty or setback can stop us from forging ahead and defeat our unshakable heart. Faith is a melting pot to temper our iron will, and we also know how to be strong in the process of having faith.
44. We judge people's activities according to their purposes. Only when the purpose is great can the activity be said to be great.
45. When a person grows up, he dares to face his true self tragically: before choosing, he has a sincere and firm face; After choosing, there is a heart that never gives up.
46. People are born with worries and fears. In other words, we are bound to experience many hardships, and when we experience hardships, we must have firm beliefs in order to succeed.
47. Belief is based on human will and is the spiritual pillar of life. With its support, people's lives can be more dazzling and perfect. .
48. Love is beautiful, but it can also be a weapon that hurts people. The most important thing in love is not to hurt each other, but to make her happy.
49. The originally enriched world has become empty just because of your departure; Let my calm heart become anxious; But I can only wait for you to come back silently.
50. Beautiful petals float silently in the silent deep pool, and the moment in the dream reflects the desolation of long-term watch. History has taught us unforgettable lessons. As long as confidence is still there, hope is far away.
5 1, life is impossible, only whether you want it or not. As long as you have to, you can.
52. Smile is the best language among friends. A natural smile is worth a thousand words. Whether we meet for the first time or have known each other for a long time, a smile can bring people closer and make them feel warm.
53, what kind of faith, what kind of life; Without a correct New Year, people will live a confused life.
54. If you lose money, you lose very little; If you lose a friend, you lose a lot; If you lose courage, you lose everything.
55. Smiling is a kind of accomplishment, and it is also a very important accomplishment. The essence of a smile is kindness, encouragement and warmth. People who really know how to smile are always easy to get more opportunities than others and always easy to succeed!
56. The taste of love: puppy love is a pear, unrequited love is a fig, first love is a wild hawthorn, lovelorn love is a bunch of sour grapes, infatuation is a red apple, infatuation is a sweet watermelon, marriage is a packet of salt melon seeds, and extramarital love is a thorn rose.
57. At that time, some people said that Einstein's theory was wrong everywhere, and 100 scientists jointly testified. Einstein knew this, but he just smiled and said, 100? So many people? Just prove that I'm really wrong and stand up alone.
58. Love is beautiful, but it can also be a weapon that hurts people. The most important thing in love is not to hurt each other, but to make her happy.
59. Success depends not on where you are now, but on the direction you are going.
60. Common cause and common struggle can make people have the power to endure everything.
6 1, I hope I don't feel guilty about life every time I recall.
62. A person who is not motivated by dedication will never achieve great things.
63. When your hopes fail one by one, you should be firm and calm!
64. The originally full world has become empty only because of your departure; Let my calm heart become anxious; But I can only wait for you to come back silently.
65. Because I believe that I love so firmly; Because of love, I understand that in the long cycle of thousands of years, the encounter between people is the unfinished love in previous lives and the fate of this life. I can't escape, I can't escape from the beginning, I miss someone so deeply; It turns out that missing is a lifelong pain.
66. The sky of life, or clear skies in Wan Li, or overcast, or stormy, whenever you firmly believe, the dark clouds will disperse, the rainstorm will stop and the sunshine will appear.
Einstein's theory stood the test of time, but those people were defeated by a smile.
68. Faith is the light in the darkness. Faith allows us to find ourselves in extreme difficulties. No matter how difficult and bitter the environment is, as long as we have a firm belief, we can face suffering.
69. I am waiting for the day when I am good enough and brave enough to walk in front of you firmly and calmly, and that will be me you have never seen before.
70, so firm, for the heart of learning; As a scholar, this is also a question of determination.
7 1. Faith is the nourishment to nourish trees, the ladder to support success and the ladder to build talents. Faith is an indelible ambition, the soul of China and China!
72. Life owes us nothing, there is no need to frown. We should be grateful for life. At least, it gives us life and living space.
73. The great man is great because when he coexists with others in adversity, others lose confidence, but he is determined to achieve his goals.
74, a person's life may burn or rot, I can't rot, I am willing to burn!
75. A smile is the best business card in life. Who doesn't want to make friends with an optimistic person? Smiling can give yourself a kind of self-confidence, and also give others a kind of self-confidence, so as to better stimulate potential.
76. People who are full of joy and fighting spirit will always welcome lightning and sunshine with joy.
77. As long as people have faith and pursuit, they can endure any difficulties and adapt to any environment.
78. Life is an outstanding person, and death is a ghost. I still miss Xiang Yu and refuse to cross Jiangdong.
79. A person who can think is really a person with infinite strength.