When we were young, when our parents asked us to do homework, we were often reluctant, because doing homework was the most painful thing in our eyes, so we would do something else secretly while doing homework. So when we become parents, what should you do if we find our children secretly playing with their mobile phones behind your back?

Patiently discuss with children First of all, many parents are often too excited when their children are disobedient or do something wrong. Making noise and fighting when you come up will only make children feel scared and rebellious. They will not discuss anything with us in the future, nor will they come to us to solve anything. Because they are afraid that we will be cruel to them indiscriminately, so that children will not tell us anything for a long time. Therefore, when parents encounter problems, even if their children are wrong, they should patiently discuss with them, so as to maintain an equal attitude with them and let them listen to us. At the same time, they will have something to discuss with us.

Make an agreement with your children. In the eyes of some parents, it is wrong for children to play with mobile phones and read extracurricular books. In fact, for children, as long as they play moderately, they will often improve their efficiency and enhance their interest. But it is definitely wrong to write while playing. Parents should tell their children in time, which will delay two things. Therefore, parents should make relevant regulations with their children, when they can play freely and when they must study. For example, parents can require their children to do what they want after completing relevant homework, and parents will not give too much interference. At the same time, when making rules, parents let their children speak on their own initiative, because when children speak out, they will have a sense of responsibility and will work harder to implement them.

Abide by the agreement After reaching the relevant agreement with the children, our parents must set an example, abide by the relevant agreement, and don't break their word. If we go back on our word easily, we will have an impression on our children and feel that we are unreliable. At the same time, I think since my parents are like this, I can do the same, which will make it difficult for children to follow when discussing things with them in the future. After a long time, it will make it difficult for children to control and parents can't carry out follow-up education and guidance.