I am the father of Chen Weitong, a classmate in Class Six, Grade Three. Speaking of my own experience in educating children, I am filled with emotion. I am very grateful to xu teacher for giving me this opportunity to talk about the problems encountered in educating children. The third grade is very important for children. Children enter the temple of knowledge from ignorant children and gradually know the world and society. It plays a decisive role in cultivating good study habits and establishing good moral quality. This is also a problem that we are very concerned about as parents and teachers. As one of them, I'll talk briefly.
In fact, as parents, the so-called "teaching is uncertain, the important thing is proper methods" is also applicable to educating our children. Personally, I think there is no way to educate children. Of course there is. So what method really belongs to you and is suitable for your children? Then we need to make a choice. First of all, you need to know your children, and then you can choose the appropriate method on the basis of understanding. This is consistent with the "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude" in education. To understand children, we should get in touch with them more and enter her life, her study, her thoughts and her inner world. If you want to enter the children's world and make them accept you and trust you, you and your children need to be.
First, give children confidence. Children have strong self-esteem. We should do a good job of backing children, say more words of encouragement and praise, praise them in time, and praise them from the heart. Never take care of children, but guide them correctly. Control will only make children rebel. I attach great importance to children's achievement awards (certificates, etc.). ). First praise, and then stick it on the living room wall with the children, so that the children can see their achievements every day. First of all, this is an encouragement. Second, it is achievement.
Second, every time a child's homework is evaluated and his grades are excellent, he should be praised and encouraged in language and given appropriate material rewards (animated movies or children's books that the child likes, etc.). ) is added. Let the children know our affirmation of her achievements and let them have the confidence and motivation to continue their efforts.
Third, cultivate children's interests in many ways and develop good habits. There is interest, teacher. Let children like and be interested in learning, and they will study hard and study hard. We will do a good job of supervision and supervision, and gradually children will develop good study habits. In learning, especially for children's difficulties in writing small compositions, it is necessary to cultivate children's habit of reading more books, which has a great influence on children. Is to create a learning atmosphere. When I was a child, my child didn't know many words, so I read them with her. For children I know, I read them to people he doesn't know, or if there is a pinyin reader, I try to let them use pinyin to solve them. With the growth of age, children can read by themselves, so I always listen carefully to what she tells me after she finishes reading articles or stories, and get to know her thoughts in time. Good words, good sentences and good paragraphs have been marked, but this aspect has not been started for a long time and has not yet shown results. I believe it's not bad
Fourthly, in the aspect of specialty training, Chen Weitong is very interested in painting. She has doodled since she was a child.
. Not only is her interest undiminished, but she regards it as a part of life and inseparable. This is a holy place to promote her pure and naive thoughts. Looking at the animals and figures painted by my daughter, the expressions are different, the expressions are strange and unique, and the meaning is not so clear. I will have a kind of happiness. Although she never won an award, I never asked her to study for it. My idea is that what children can like is enough. I have a wide range of interests and hobbies, and I do things seriously, which is useful to society.
Fifth, support children to participate in activities and grow up healthily. It is a good exercise and improvement to let children participate in activities, actively participate and give play to their own specialties. Don't judge children by their success or failure, but mainly cultivate their character, mentality and positive and optimistic personality, which can exercise their adaptability, communication and cooperation ability, their physique, their courage and their endurance. I have always been very supportive of children participating in various extracurricular activities. I think every time is a rare opportunity to exercise. Although these activities require us to spend a lot of time and energy as parents, I always try my best to spend time with her, because the opportunity for children to exercise is not always met. Many parents, afraid of affecting their children's homework, don't let their children participate in extracurricular activities, and some parents say that they are busy with work and have no time to accompany their children to participate in activities. I don't think that's the reason. As long as you really want to do something, the road is always more difficult than it is! The same goes for children's education. Give and you will get back. For children at this stage, I think we should let them exercise more, try more, cultivate their extensive interests, be good at discovering their specialties, actively guide them, try our best to overcome their own difficulties and give them more.
Sixth, create a good family environment, create a harmonious and democratic atmosphere, and let children have a healthy psychology. Parents are children's teachers. Parents' behavior will have a subtle influence on children, so for the sake of children, we should set an example, so that children can be themselves first and set an example. Pay attention to children, give them love and selfless love. Let children feel love and love their families. Let children be happy and healthy.
Seven, friends exchange. Accompany children to study, read, play, pay attention to and study, and understand what children like and are interested in. In this way, talking and chatting with children will have a common language and make children feel that they can communicate with us. For example, watching cartoons together, I think when chatting with children, we can talk about what children like, want to hear and want to say, not about homework or study. Listen carefully to children, accept their imagination and creativity, and listen to their ideas. Let children like to communicate with you, trust you and admire you, so that we can become friends, understand their real thoughts, correctly understand them and seek correct scientific education.
Eight, correctly treat exams and grades. Examination is a means and one of the ways to test children's learning. Don't let children pay too much attention to exams and put too much pressure on them. Don't take it seriously, after all, it is used to detect this period of time.
Understand the situation, then better find the shortcomings, analyze the problems, and find the countermeasures for improvement and progress. My daughter said before every exam: Dad, what should I do if I can't get good grades? I will tell her: don't think about the exam results, don't just look at the scores. Dad wants you to treat the exam seriously and attentively. The key is whether you can master the knowledge points. Scores don't represent your ability. Just take the exam with your heart.
These are my experiences and practices in children's education. Over the years, I have always adhered to the idea of letting children grow up in happiness and do everything with my heart. I believe my efforts will pay off in the end. There are many ways to educate children. I hope everyone can understand their children and find a suitable way to learn, so that she can become a useful person to society.