2. Encourage more and blame less: although children are small, they also have their own self-esteem. Beating and scolding children will not only hurt their hearts, but also get farther and farther away from them. Treat children with more encouragement and less blame. We should replace "can you stop doing this" with "I hope you can do this", choose a way to make them more acceptable, be good at observing their bright spots, praise and encourage them more, make them more confident and accept their parents' suggestions more easily.
3. Create a pleasant atmosphere: When teaching children rules, mothers should not be serious, but teach children the correct way to do things in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere. Because when you preach seriously with a straight face, children will rebel. On the contrary, if you instill it in your children while talking and laughing, they will accept it more easily and do as you say.
4. Grasp the edge of rules: rules are dead, but people are alive. For some rules, the mother can not be too dead, let the children play freely within a certain range and handle things flexibly. For example, children don't want to do homework after school and want to go out to play with friends. At this time, the mother can tell the child: You can also choose to play first, but you have to finish your homework when you come back.
5. Find out the reason why children are naughty and give them full respect: understand the inner needs of children and have an inclusive heart for their behavior. If a child is naughty, he must first find the reason. After finding out the reasons, we will carry out targeted education. In other words, when children are naughty, don't ignore them, but give them more care.