What kind of mother can cultivate a world champion like Gu Ailing? As a senior, I'll reveal the secret to you. How is the real schoolmaster cultivated? Finally, you can learn the educational methods of world champion mothers. Gu Ailing, a girl who is popular on the Internet, is not only good-looking, but also a super schoolmaster. She finished high school one year ahead of schedule and was admitted to Stanford University with a near perfect score on the SAT. Many people say that this is someone else's child, but parents should not only look at other people's children, but also look at their mothers.

The reasons for the success of Gu Ailing's mother education are as follows:

1, the feeling of independence, makes it have a sense of belonging. This is the key word for Gu Ailing's mother to educate her children. Actually, Gu Ailing's parents divorced when he was very young. It is her mother who supports her daughter's education management. Gu Ailing's mother is also a master of chemistry at Peking University. When she was in Peking University, she was a member of the short track speed skating team and a ski instructor, so Gu Ailing followed her mother on the ice and snow since she was a child, but her mother never forced her to make any great achievements in skiing. On the contrary, Gu Ailing likes playing the piano when she was a child, and she likes learning ballet when she likes dancing. In the process of growing up, Gu Ailing tried more than a dozen hobbies such as football, basketball and dance.

2. Discover the child's talent and guide it correctly. It was not until Gu Ailing's mother found that she showed great interest and talent in skiing that she locked in this direction. On one occasion, Gu Ailing said in an interview that I didn't ski to win an Olympic gold medal, and I didn't study to get into Stanford. I only do this because I like to win a few games by the way. It's just my interest. After reading this passage, isn't this what many children's mothers repeatedly emphasize every day?

3. Cultivate hobbies and give guidance and encouragement. Not because of good grades, they love learning, and good grades in turn strengthen learning. Even Olympic champions start with hobbies. Ordinary children should also love and like their parents' support to help them find a sense of autonomy, ability and belonging as soon as possible. So mothers must broaden their horizons and let their children try more possibilities. Before winning the gold medal in the last counterattack, Gu Ailing called her mother and said that she had one last chance to challenge a difficult action that had never been challenged before. Her mother said that this is your choice of competition. I hope you can enjoy the competition. Her mother respected your choice and gave her daughter encouragement and support in just a few words before such a crucial game, which also gave her a sense of autonomy and encouragement.

4. Constantly spur and cultivate self-confidence. Although we saw Gu Ailing standing on the podium, few people knew that when he 13 participated in the adult competition for the first time, he was hit hard because he failed to complete the whole race and almost gave up skiing. It was her mother who encouraged her daughter not to give up because of a little setback, and accompanied her daughter for a year of intensive training. A year later, 14-year-old Gu Ailing returned to the competition again and completed the action that could not be completed in this competition. Her mother accompanied her daughter and told her to get up when she fell. This is the most valuable way to improve her self-confidence and give her enough sense of ability.

5, guide to enjoy hobbies, do not deliberately pursue rankings. Gu Ailing's mother never asked Gu Ailing to have any achievements in skiing, and the same is true in her studies. Gu's mother once told her that you don't have to take Stanford because your father is Harvard and your mother is Stanford. You didn't get into Stanford, so your mother gave her the most unconditional love and gave her children a place to belong. Such family education will make children feel three kinds of feelings: autonomy and the ability to make their own decisions.

6. Cultivate children's motivation and love. Motivation is the best time to study. Everything at the top of the pyramid is out of love, talent, diligence, luck, talent and luck, which we all welcome. But being able to love and be diligent is enough for us to do everything well, so don't just envy other people's children, you should try to be their parents first.

Perhaps the above reasons have made Gu Ailing's success, which is also the reason why Gu Ailing's mother education is successful!