Chen Meiling told us 50 educational laws from the perspective of educating mothers and doctors. It's a little different from the educational books I've read before. One is that Chen Meiling is a doctor of education and has a deep understanding of the field of education; In addition, the educational methods mentioned in this book are very practical, that is, very practical and very suitable for practical work.

Many of my ideas coincide with many of the ideas in the book. As the saying goes, "Great minds think alike". Haha, let's face it, I am a doctor of education and a "primary school student", and I agree with many viewpoints in the book.

Give a few examples to talk about your feelings after reading it.

I don't know what the public thinks of this view now. Personally, I totally agree with this view. Family education is the most important thing for children's growth. Classes taught by school teachers cannot replace family education. These two are completely different. What kind of family education brings children not only personality, but also the whole outlook on life and values. Of course, we say that many things should not be too absolute, and we should look at them from several angles. But family education has a very important influence on children's childhood. As parents, we should attach importance to childhood education and spend more time communicating with our children.

This is a reference for all young people. I don't know what young people in the whole society think now. However, for the development of society, how to gain a foothold in society and find my own career direction often makes me at a loss, and I need a guide to help me make a choice. Choosing the most difficult road seems abstract, but it is easy to be verified by life. For example, getting up early in the morning must be comfortable to sleep for a while. On the contrary, getting up is the hardest way to go.

English learning has always been a focus of education, which can be seen from the reform of college entrance examination. I always think English is very important. Under the background of economic globalization, English is a skill that must be learned. Of course, it is understandable that many people object to this view. They feel that they have never been abroad and have no scenes of communicating with foreigners. Learning English is a waste of time and educational resources. But judging from the development of the present and future world, I don't think so. English is arguably the most common international language. If you master this language, the world will suddenly become vast, not just China, but the whole world.

Chen Meiling mentioned in her book how she did it. In adult dialogue, as long as there are children present, they will be asked for their opinions and let them join the dialogue. But how do many families do it? A sentence we often hear is: What do children say when adults talk? You can understand the difference. Thirdly, I saw that my children had never attended a banquet between adults before they were minors. Suddenly, after their children graduated from college, they were asked to attend such a banquet, and many guests could communicate. It's simply incomprehensible.

Let me give you another simple example, which is communication with children. Many parents want their children to communicate with them more. From the children's point of view, they also want to communicate with their parents more, but every conversation always ends in discord. Why? I don't know if you have thought about this question. Let me give my opinion. First of all, in the process of children's growth, parents often take the liberty to think that some things should not be told to their children, and many things they don't know. When I grow up, I said I didn't want to talk to you about these things when I was a child. It is understandable that parents care about taking care of their children, but after a long time, children will think that you don't tell me anything, so why should I tell you everything about me? This feeling is even stronger when some things at home are heard from other relatives and friends, rather than when parents tell themselves.

It is really important to communicate sincerely with children.

This sentence really came to my mind, and now we are facing the second identity crisis. Article 45 The title of the Education Law is to confirm self-identity. Looking back, this question has never been mentioned, and it is very important to ourselves. The so-called self-identity is about "who am I?" "Why am I here?" "Where should I go from here?" Three questions determine your life direction. If you can answer these three questions clearly by yourself, you will know your life path very well.

I also want you to look back and see if your parents have seriously discussed such problems with themselves or given pertinent opinions.

These two sentences were said by Chen Meiling's father. It points out the importance of education to a person. At present, if anyone still thinks reading is useless, it really shouldn't be. It is hard to say the changes brought by education, but education is very important to the development of the whole society and human beings, and knowledge is the support of the whole system.

Chen Meiling's three children have all entered Stanford University, where she is also a doctor of education. We can also see her father's influence on her. Her father's emphasis on education made Chen Meiling successful. All parents should cultivate their children's education by heart.

The excellent books on education and growth that I have read before are as follows:

I am an American mother. The new version of Chua Mei-er's works should be changed to Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother.

Growth is more important than success is the work of Ling Zhijun. The important story in the book is about the early 30 "Microsoft Boys" of Microsoft Research Asia.