The young couple gave birth to a baby. Who will take care of it?
1. For the sake of children's mental health, children must bring their own.
For the sake of children's mental health, it is best to take care of children by yourself. Without the experience of growing up and running in, parents and children will feel strange. Even after the age of three, parents will face the same barriers as their children. During this period, parents should spend more time, patience, care and tolerance to repair their lost family ties. Whether children can accept their parents is still a question. Young people who are new parents belong to the working class and have limited time. At this time, they must need the help of experienced parents. However, it is recommended that children bring their own children.
Husband and wife should be children's closest playmates.
Parents should strive to be their children's closest partners and playmates in the game. What do you want your children to do when they grow up? Parents' own speech and behavior should meet this standard. The reason for saying this is that parents can do, children can hope to do, and you can't do it. Don't force children. Parents can be seen in every child. If children are not taken care of by their mothers during this critical period, they will have more chances to get mental illness when they grow up than others.
3. Old people with children are apt to spoil their children.
Old people always spoil other generations. When my uncle raised my cousins, they were very strict and well educated. However, after my cousin's children took them to my uncle, they became very naughty and would try their best to destroy them. Uncle didn't dare to scold them severely. Every time he scolds the child, the child still has the cheek to say, I am not afraid of you, which makes uncles and aunts laugh and cry. Therefore, for the growth of children, for our own growth, we take our children with us.
Skills of raising children
1. Have time to let the children play casually.
Free play is healthier and more beneficial to preschool children than planned activities. Parents should avoid cramming their children's time into various activities. All children need a period of idleness and free play.
2. Teach him to care about others.
Happy children need to be able to feel that they have some meaningful connections with others and understand their meaning to others. To cultivate this feeling, you can help children get in touch with people. You can sort out some old toys with your children and donate them to charity to help homeless children.
The skill of caring for children encourages him to do more exercise.
Playing ball games, cycling, swimming and doing more exercise with children can not only exercise their physical strength, but also make them more cheerful. Maintaining a vibrant life can moderately relieve children's stress and emotions, make children like themselves, have a positive body image, and find fun and a sense of accomplishment from sports.
What are the taboos for parents to take care of their children?
1. Parents are busy taking care of their children.
When do you care about children the most? Is it when he is most naughty or when he is wrong? If so, then quickly realize the seriousness of the problem, because children will understand that parents only pay attention to themselves when they make mistakes, so they don't know how to correct them. The correct way is to care about your children no matter how busy they are, especially when they behave well, and let them know that their parents care about them.
The taboo for parents to take care of their children is doting.
Take care of your mouth, eat whatever you want and wear whatever you want, and your child's wayward character will be developed. Father's "Love Son-Mistakenly Drowning Son-"is often a trilogy in which some teenagers go astray in real life. In daily life, when children do something wrong in public, parents know it is wrong, but they shelter and cover it up for various reasons. As a result, children can't treat shortcomings and mistakes correctly.
3. The taboo of parents taking care of their children is inconsistent in education and emotion.
What children are most afraid of when educating their children is that their parents have different calibers. At this time, children are either at a loss or mistakenly think that someone can always ignore them. What about the future? Your child's education will be greatly discounted. Some parents give special treatment to their children when they are in a good mood and scold them when they are in a bad mood.
Is it illegal to have children out of wedlock?
Long-term unmarried cohabitation will inevitably breed new life. It is not illegal to have children out of wedlock at this time, but it will bring a lot of trouble to apply for a birth permit before the child is born and registered permanent residence after birth. Therefore, at this time, since unmarried cohabitation has children, both parties should regard each other as lifelong partners, even for the sake of children, they still have to register for marriage. It's no trouble to register for marriage.