Case article on mental health counseling for middle school students 1
Case introduction:
There is such a student named Ji in the class. My parents divorced, and I was addicted to games in the first grade. In order to escape his mother's nagging, he can shut himself in the bathroom and play for hours. He is in a daze in class and his academic performance is getting worse and worse. By the second day of junior high school, it was a little broken, but he especially liked painting, painting after class, painting in class and painting after homework. Exercise books and books are full of all kinds of paintings. I was very angry at first, so I severely criticized him and sometimes ridiculed him, but the effect was not satisfactory. Calling him to the office for serious education many times did not attract his attention, but made him feel resistant and felt that the teacher was deliberately making things difficult for him.
Case study:
His parents' divorce did great harm to him when he was young. Although his parents still love him very much, living with his father makes him feel lonely: naughty children in the village still laugh at him, and the sympathy and strange eyes of adults make him unbearable. Due to the lack of guidance of methods, neglect of supervision and negligence of teachers, learning plummeted. On the other hand, the teacher also blames him and makes him feel that learning is boring. On the contrary, he is addicted to playing video games and painting, and likes activities that don't require too much contact with others. He completely shut himself up, asking him questions at ordinary times and keeping him empty.
Consultation method:
Starting from his hobby, I specially arranged painting time for him. As the next class teacher, I will be in charge of the blackboard newspaper in my class, so I will let him be in charge of the painting part of the blackboard newspaper and help other students complete each blackboard newspaper. At the same time, the school is conducting art counseling, so he is recommended to study in the school art extracurricular group. In addition, as long as the class needs drawing, please ask him to help finish it. The time spent painting increased, which satisfied his wish.
Wait for another chance. Science is the study of electric circuits. With a little attraction to him, by chance, he asked me a question about circuit connection. This is the first time I have seen him ask questions since junior high school. I spoke highly of him. At the same time, I chatted with him about his plans and let him know what he still lacks on the basis of the present. Put forward higher hopes for him and hope that he can make great progress in all subjects. When some lessons are unbearable, you should think about your ideals and strive for the upper reaches for the lessons you are interested in. He said excitedly that he would prove it with actions. I joked that I encouraged you in the back and watched you in the front. In his later study life, he often asked a question, and his academic performance soon improved. The chapter "Exploring the Secrets of Circuits" finally got an ideal score.
Consultation effect:
After entering the final review, I began to take notes, do exercises and get into the state. Although I have to have fun sometimes, I am still very serious in class.
Consultation and reflection:
Interest is people's psychological tendency to know and explore something. It is an inherent tendency and selectivity of human beings to objective things.
Interest, based on need, is an emotional expression of objective things. When people engage in interesting activities, they are always accompanied by positive and happy emotional experiences; On the contrary, when engaging in uninterested activities, it is always accompanied by negative and boring emotional experiences. The interest aroused by physiological needs is temporary, and once the needs are met, the interest disappears immediately. Get stable interest. In practice, social needs are reflected by people and become personal needs, thus forming and developing interests.
Interest has the characteristics of migration. Interest transfer is to extend the existing interest to related things and make them interested in them. There are three conditions for interest transfer: first, it is good at discovering what students are interested in; Second, be good at discovering similarities between new things or activities and original interests; Third, we should be persuasive in practical activities, stimulate students to generate new interests and needs, and guide them to overcome difficulties.
People's talents are different, high and low, and there are different types. How important it is for teachers to recognize this difference and teach students in accordance with their aptitude! In real life, many teachers do not hesitate to kill some children's talents in order to better realize the current educational evaluation standards. This is not only unscientific, but also irresponsible. For children's talents, teachers should make use of the direct interest and skillfully use the characteristics of interest transfer to make learning develop into the center of students' interest. Only in this way can there be more geniuses and more innovative talents!
Case 2 of mental health consultation for middle school students
Case introduction:
Xiao Tao (pseudonym), male, 16 years old (three years ago), a junior one student, whose mother has been working outside for a long time and basically lives with her father. He is a tall man. At first glance, it is a typical oriental handsome boy! Lively and cheerful personality, positive thinking, versatile, excellent in character and learning. Whether it is a teacher or a classmate, it can be said that everyone loves him, everyone praises him, and envious eyes have always accompanied him. However, in the first month of grade three, great changes have taken place in him: talkative, taciturn, secretive, emotionally fluctuating, cheerful in the morning, and possibly dull in the afternoon. He is often alone, reducing communication with his classmates, and paying special attention to his appearance modification. He is distracted in class and his academic performance has plummeted.
Case study:
Family factors: My mother worked outside for a long time, lived with her father since childhood, and was curious about the opposite sex. Her father seldom communicated with her, and her curiosity about the opposite sex became stronger and stronger.
Physiological factors: 16 years old is in the early stage of youth, and silent physiological changes have prompted him to have a new mystery about the opposite sex.
Self-factors: self-control is not strong enough, will is not firm, lack of guidance, and I am at a loss in the face of this quietly coming confusion.
Environmental factors: growing up with praise, he felt that he had many advantages over others, and when this inexplicable heterosexual impulse attacked him, these capitals fueled his desire to reveal secrets.
Consultation process:
1, whatever it wants.
Through understanding, I know that he loves sports and plays table tennis very well, so let's take this as a starting point! I happened to meet him on campus, and I stopped him: Xiao Tao, I heard that you play table tennis very well, and I like it very much. Shall we have a game after school? I will wait for you! ? I was secretly glad that he really came after school. We fought hard for five games, and I narrowly beat him 3-2. ? Xiao Tao, at an early age, is really good. You played a wonderful game. I always feel that you lost today, not technically, but psychologically. You're not paying enough attention. Don't you have anything on your mind? He didn't say anything, so I cut in: If you treat me as a friend, you might as well tell me. Maybe I can help you. ?
This is our first direct contact, simple and natural!
Step 2 open your heart
To my surprise, I received a short message from him the next day:
Hello, teacher:
I really need your help on one thing. I met a girl? Once, she was ill and didn't come to class for several days. I don't know why, but I feel bored and in a daze all day. I realized that I was in love with her. I want her to know, but I'm afraid she will know. In the extreme contradiction, I still couldn't help writing her a note. At night, I was even more scared. I wonder what it will be like to see her again the next day. I tossed and turned until dawn.
I really want to go back to my first contact with her, that kind of freedom and freedom, but can I still do it? This is my second contact with him. Although it is a silent language, I know that he has opened his heart to me.
Step 3 face reality
I dare not neglect it. It's now or never! I immediately sent him a letter:
Xiao Tao:
Thank you for your trust in me, and congratulations, because you have begun to think about life with your own brain. Coincidentally, I had your experience when I was a student. At that time, I fell in love under the corporal punishment of my parents and the corporal punishment of my teacher in disguise. However, so far, puppy love in my school days is the most regrettable thing in my life! If there is regret medicine in the world, if it takes me five years to live, I will not hesitate to say: I do! It is true that the seeds of love are normal, but maybe something with a distance will be more beautiful. As an experienced person, I want to warn you: try to be responsible for your actions before the injury is caused.
This is my third contact with him. Although I am still speechless, I know that my honesty will make him face the reality.
Step 4 go straight to the heart
Everything is developing in the direction I expected. I strike while the iron is hot.
One night two days later, he came to me. At that time, we talked a lot:
? I'm glad that we can communicate so closely. So you are still the best and most handsome little Tao. It's normal to have a crush on someone, but have you ever considered that your crush on someone now seems to focus only on a leaf and ignore a forest? What's more, you will meet a large forest in your future life. Are you sure this leaf is the most suitable for you in this big forest now?
? I send you a word:? You look at horsepower from a distance and people for a long time? . Sometimes personal stubbornness can blind us, but time will tell. Students' time is a great opportunity to learn knowledge and learn to read people and observe society. I hope you will take good care of yourself and hand in a satisfactory answer sheet in the future. ?
This is my fourth contact with him. I remember that day he left with a smile, full of sense of accomplishment. Because this kind of communication touched his heart.
Consultation effect:
1. Through repeated follow-up communication, the fog in Xiao Tao's heart was removed, so that he really recognized himself, changed his attitude towards life and established a healthy and harmonious heterosexual relationship.
2. Now Xiao Tao is a senior three student. He has succeeded in getting out of puppy love? Swamp? Lively, cheerful and enthusiastic. His versatility has also been brought into full play, especially in his studies. He is well-read and studious, and his grades have climbed again and again. In a recent letter, he confirmed? Non-key universities do not study? .
Reflection and feelings:
Trust and tolerance are the golden keys to open the hearts of puppy love students.
2. Replacing punishment with reward, replacing criticism with praise, and resolving contradictions artistically are the magic weapons to let students know their mistakes.
3. A warm and kind heart and a series of meticulous and humanized measures can help a student find the lost world.
4. What is the focus of education? A tour guide? . Teachers should have a heart, sow the seeds of hope in students' hearts, and they will reap a golden autumn.
Case study on mental health consultation of middle school students 3
Zhao? Female, 19 years old, a junior high school student in a vocational school. Zhao? I grew up in junior high school, and my academic performance was moderate. After I took the exam, my grades dropped to the lower-middle level. In the second year of vocational high school, there was a contradiction between the class teacher and the class teacher, and the teacher severely criticized and left out. I'm very scared. What did her mother ask the class teacher to do afterwards? Work? The class teacher talked to her again and expressed concern. ? I used to think that there are two kinds of people in the world who are the most sacred? Teachers and soldiers, now feel so many people, so disappointed. ? Zhao? So. Seeing all kinds of contradictions and unhealthy phenomena among her classmates, she felt too bored, didn't want to associate with her classmates, and her interpersonal relationship was indifferent. Her classmates said she was strange. She gradually felt that there were no good people in the world, so she had to guard against people, and she felt abandoned by society and eventually eliminated. I have something on my mind that I dare not tell anyone. I say it occasionally, but I regret it. I'm nervous, irritable and insomnia. Anxiety symptoms have lasted for more than a year. The following is her self-report on the symptoms: sometimes she feels nervous and anxious for no reason, and her limbs are weak. Stop thinking, fidget, depressed, sometimes want to cry, but can't cry, sometimes my head hurts and my eyebrows hurt. Think over one thing. ?
Case study:
Zhao? Symptoms are nervousness, irritability, fidgeting and so on. , accompanied by exercise anxiety, lasting for more than one year, belonging to persistent anxiety; Although there are depressive symptoms such as depression, apathy and withdrawal, they are not the main symptoms, and the intensity is far less than anxiety. Diagnosis: chronic anxiety neurosis.
From Zhao? According to her chief complaint, her symptoms are related to interpersonal tension. But what happened in her school is not special, even universal, and the influence of interpersonal relationship is not commensurate with her high vigilance against people. She believes that only teachers and military personnel are sacred, and there seems to be a fear of others behind them; The conflict between teachers and students leads to her overall negative view of the world, which seems unreasonable. There are indications that Zhao? There may be unusual experiences.
Induce, Zhao? Tears told her deeper trauma: first, in the second grade of primary school, her uncle pretended to take her out to play and molested her where no one was around. She fled back in tears and said it under grandma's questioning, but grandma forbade her to tell others and molested her. At that time, she didn't dare to resist. Later, every time she remembered it, she regretted that she didn't bite him. Third, his parents have a bad relationship. His father is overbearing and bullies his mother. Zhao? I hate my father very much. Obviously, all kinds of childhood misfortunes are on Zhao? Leave a deep wound in your heart; The bad family environment made her feel the dark side of society very early; Moreover, the family also lost her psychological support early; But she still has good hopes for people. Holy teachers and soldiers. An ordinary conflict between teachers and students made her fragile mind lose its support in an instant, which finally led to illness. This is a typical case of anxiety neurosis related to childhood traumatic experience.
Consultation method:
For Zhao? Under special circumstances, the treatment mainly adopts psychological analysis and explanatory psychological support. This paper analyzes the relationship between past traumatic experience and current symptoms, analyzes the concept of female chastity, eliminates her sense of impurity, expresses sympathy for her experience, and fully affirms her personality. Through case analysis, it explains the complexity of society and points out the positive side of society. At the same time, it also inspired her to realize her one-sided and paranoid views on people and society, and the relationship with her own personality weaknesses. Encourage her to face up to life and return to her classmates. Hypnosis is used in psychological analysis to relieve bad emotions when discussing the past. Some concrete suggestions are put forward on how to deal with family relations and communicate with classmates. All measures taken against Zhao? It has played a very good role in relieving anxiety symptoms.