Every time I read this book, I will be immersed in the beauty of words and pictures, and I will admire Mr. Rong's creative teaching, as if I had experienced it myself. Reading this book reveals a relaxed, cheerful and wise atmosphere everywhere. I also got some enlightenment from it: education is an art, and we must study hard, listen hard and tolerate hard, so that education can become love, hope and miracle.
Some children need your patience more-the author mentioned here that parents also need to be patient with their children and be good at listening to their voices. Some children really need more time to develop their talents than others. I also hope that parents can talk to teachers about their children, and that parents can spend more time with their children and let them hear their encouragement and praise. This book refers to Matthew's mother's letter. The mother used to yell and criticize her children indiscriminately, which finally made her children more depressed. Later, when he was desperate, he calmed himself down first, then listened to his children patiently, encouraged and supported them, and let them know that they could do it, so that they would believe that they would become more confident.
Listening is what every child expects, but some parents don't know how to listen to their children's voices and ignore what their real needs are. The author emphasizes that children need their parents to accompany them when they grow up, so that the parent-child relationship will be closer. Reading this reminds me of the students in my class Are not their parents the same? Wang Xuan is a child of migrant workers and transferred to the fifth grade. I remember the first time I met him. Don't look me in the eye with your head down. I am stiff and somewhat inferior, which makes people feel very distressed. After a period of contact, I found that he is now a playful but smart child. I grew up with my grandmother when I was a child and returned to my parents when I was in primary school. Because I am naughty, I am often scolded or even beaten by my parents at home. Every time I talk to his parents, she always complains about how disobedient her children are on the phone and never listens to her praise her children. I remember that time I followed the student to the rental house and met his parents. My mother also took this 7-month-old daughter with her. As soon as I saw her, I began to talk endlessly about the child's fault, saying that he still didn't understand what he wanted to buy. He also showed me a dress with a triangular hole in its back: a dress of 600-700 yuan, which was like this when I came home from school, so the child was beaten again, with several bright red scars hanging on the back of his hand. I was shocked to learn that this student was taking his 7-month-old sister to work at the weekend, and I felt unspeakable sadness in my heart. Where is the carefree childhood that should have belonged to him? Do parents really listen to their children? Although parents hide their children's material needs, they don't know their children's hearts. So I told her in detail, analyzed her situation, and told her to change the previous way of education, less scolding, more praise, less hands-on and more listening. Later, I met his mother and said that her child had changed. Now she can finish her homework in time and become sensible. Yes, Wang Xuan's behavior in school has also changed a lot, and his grades are constantly improving. The child was praised by his parents, which increased his self-confidence. Therefore, parents know how to listen to their children's voices, so that the parent-child relationship will be closer!
Teachers should listen attentively to children's voices, and teachers should listen attentively to teachers in children's eyes. I remember once in the corridor after school, Chen Junhang (the boy got good grades in school and was often criticized by me for his bad behavior) talked to me. He said, "I am the best Chinese teacher who talked with him, because in the past, the teacher always punished him for copying the text, and he didn't like it, but he said that I was sometimes fierce ..." So I have been thinking about what aspects of me made him think I was fierce, and how can I get into his heart? Later, I learned about his family. The child grew up with his grandmother and was never scolded by her. His parents have been abroad for more than ten years, and he hardly sees them several times, which makes him very sad. Such a family child is too lacking in care, so his emotions at home are unconsciously brought to school. He doesn't sit properly in class. He always can't control his mouth and his handwriting is scrawled. Maybe some bad behaviors at school are hoping to get the attention of teachers and classmates. Usually I pay special attention to him. I will ask him to do something, such as getting him to pour me a glass of water, and then say thank you to him. It's cute to see his proud and shy expression. Later, he may feel recognized by the teacher and his behavior has changed a lot. Yes, children's growth needs attention and recognition. Listen to children's needs, let our hearts get closer and trust each other, and miracles will surely happen.
After reading Teacher Ron's "Teacher Ron's Miracle Education", every part is worth pondering and pondering. As a teacher, we should learn to listen to children, listen attentively to students' dreams, listen attentively to the voice of flowers, touch every child with a little love, exchange love for children's trust, and teach children to be a man, learn to live, learn to share, and learn to love themselves and others. Believe in students and pursue the miracle of creating education with them!