Introduction: I have done some wrong things in the education and training of children before, such as unconsciously labeling children. For example, parents are telling others that their children are timid and shy. This is actually labeling your children. What kind of labels you give their children, they may become what kind of people. In the past, Bian Xiao always said that his children thought he was particularly stupid. Tonight, the children will really become less clever. We should use positive words to hint at their children, instead of labeling them as such negative people.

First of all, it's the most wrong thing that Bian Xiao has ever done to label children negatively. All children should be afraid of strangers. Both adults and children need to be familiar with and overstep in a strange environment, but some parents feel that they are parents and that they can adapt to this environment well, but they can't. In the process of growing up, they can gradually make themselves less afraid. Not so timid, but parents say from time to time, why are you so timid? My child is timid, and my child is shy. Slowly, their children became very timid and shy. Bian Xiao didn't think it was anything before, but with the growth of children's age, we can find its disadvantages. I hope all parents will not label their children, especially those negative labels.

Second, you can't understand your children. Not from the child's point of view. The other is that you don't understand your children. You always say that you are equal to your child, but when the child makes a mistake, he will criticize the child from the perspective of parents. This seems simple to us, but it is a very big challenge for children. Don't always pay attention to children's results, but also pay attention to children and the process of hard work. To learn to understand children, we must adjust our perspective from the perspective of children. Only by starting with children can things become easy.