(1) Parents should set an example and be role models for their children, and schools should guide them attentively and make joint efforts.

We believe that to educate children well, we must first set an example. Parents are the best role models for children. Only when they do it themselves will the children follow suit. If it is only reasonable, but the ego can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education is just a treasure, and the failed education will not work at all. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results.

My son's mother is currently a graduate student in a university. For children, this is something he is proud of and a kind of motivation. Although he didn't understand how hard it was for his mother to take the postgraduate entrance examination, he was deeply impressed by the sight of her reading quietly in the middle of the night. This is an example, which made him understand that only hard work can make his dream come true.

The child is already in the first grade. Although the mother is not around, under the inculcation of the father and the school teacher, the child has not only made progress in his studies, but also made gratifying progress in other aspects and became a sensible good child.

(2) Create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop conscious study habits.

My colleague told me that his daughter and niece were admitted to the university in the same year. His experience is to create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop a good habit of self-study.

Every night after dinner, he and his wife go out for a walk. After the daughter and niece cleared the table, they went to do their homework. They went home. Children never watch TV when they are doing their homework. Everyone takes a book to read. After a long time, children will form a good habit of working and sleeping. Daughters and nieces often compare each other to see who studies well and who studies late. Last year, in the college entrance examination, both children passed the dream university with excellent results.

(3) Cultivate children's interest, interest is the best teacher.

When my son was young, he liked playing computer games very much. I told him that by playing games, you can also play new tricks, such as making slides for other children to see. What a sense of accomplishment. So my son learned to make slides and often let other children appreciate and teach them.

My son likes English at present. At the beginning, my classmate's daughter went to learn English and asked him to follow. Now, he is more and more interested and says to his mother, "There is a classmate in our class who speaks English very well. I want to be like him." I'm glad to see that children love learning English so much.

I don't understand my son's Chinese very well, and I sometimes worry about him. I really hope he can improve his Chinese, but my son said he would continue to apply for English, and I agreed happily.

(4) Punish children appropriately, guide them with your heart, and be their good friends.

I remember when my son was a child, he once took money from his family and bought a lot of toys without his parents' consent. After we understood, we asked him to return the toy and gave him a good beating. He never made a similar mistake again.

When my son was in the fourth grade, his handwriting was very poor. I asked him to rewrite the words with incorrect strokes 10 times. As a result, we quarreled. The son said that he had tried his best and it would be difficult to change for a while. I admitted my mistake to my son, pointing out that it was wrong for him to hit me, and my son admitted his mistake. At the moment, my son and I sometimes chat like friends, which is very enjoyable.