Parents' repressive education is not desirable, which will make children feel inferior, sensitive and doubt themselves. Some children bury their true thoughts in their hearts and dare not show them. Parents' repressive education has a cruel influence on children, which we don't want to see. A few years ago, there was also such a scene in the popular TV series "Little Joy". Joe in the play is obedient and sensible, and his grades are excellent. She is in the top of the school in every exam, and she is very self-disciplined and motivated. She is the envy of many parents. However, in the eyes of her mother Song Qian, Ruth was always there. In addition to the tight study schedule every day, there are all kinds of educational criticisms, which always magnify the shortcomings of her children, but fail to see the advantages of her children. She turned a blind eye to them in the name of "for your own good". This is actually a very typical "repressive education" of parents, who are afraid of their children's pride and dare not praise them. When children have demands, they stubbornly refute and suppress them. Eiko wants to study astronomy at Nanjing University, but her mother wants her to stay in Beijing. No matter what Eiko asked, she couldn't get her mother's consent. In the tug-of-war, Eiko finally suffered from depression, which broke out completely under the pressure of her mother for many years.