1. Cultivate children's independent thinking ability. Educate children to have their own standards and values instead of blindly following others. By letting children make their own decisions, they learn to weigh the pros and cons, take responsibility and cultivate their independent thinking ability.

2. Emphasize the uniqueness of children. Encourage children to learn to appreciate their own personal characteristics and the uniqueness of others. Educate children to understand that the comparison between people is meaningless, and everyone has different advantages and limitations.

3. Avoid excessive rewards and praise. We need to let children know that they don't need praise or material comforts to prove their worth. This does not mean that we don't praise children's efforts and achievements, but excessive praise and reward may lead children to form a mentality of keeping up with the joneses.

4. Encourage children to use time and economic resources. Teach children that learning and self-growth are more important. Only through your own efforts can you get your own growth and promotion, not through comparison and comparison with others to get a simple but short-lived satisfaction.

5. Observe children's words and deeds. By observing the child's external performance, we can understand some hidden emotional needs of the child. Encourage children to express their thoughts and feelings instead of just focusing on superficial behavior. Control our own attitude. Children will learn countless ideas from their parents, so parents should have a correct attitude and avoid the feeling of comparing with others.