? After reading it carefully, I found that this is a book about growth, education and love. The author of this book is Tetsuko Kuroyanagi, a famous Japanese children's writer. By describing the story of Xiao Doudou's two-year life in Ba Xue Garden, the author shows his growth process and spiritual feelings to readers.
? Xiao Doudou, a little girl who was discouraged by the original primary school because of her curiosity and exploration, had a very happy and interesting childhood in Ba Xueyuan.
? The book is a fragment of the author's elementary school life in just a few years, which gives me three feelings:
1. A good teacher has a great influence on students, not because of his teaching level, but because of his noble personality and his true love for students and education.
Mr. Kobayashi is a key figure in the book, and his educational policy is summarized by the author as follows. In my opinion, all Mr Kobayashi's educational ideas have only one word, and that is love. Mr. Kobayashi loves children with all his heart, and I believe Mr. Kobayashi loves the world as well. And I deeply realized that it was Mr. Kobayashi in this book who taught me to respect others, love nature and pursue peace. In this book, Mr. Kobayashi taught us a lot of truth. Mr. Kobayashi always respects everyone around him very much. In his view, everyone is lovely, and everyone's personality deserves respect and must be respected, even if it is a child who knows nothing. He will invite farmers into the classroom to teach children, he will listen patiently to what each child says, and he will respect each child's hobbies and talents. His selfless love also touched me. Let me realize that for a child, respect and equal communication are the first. As for beating and cursing, it is the worst way of education.
? Teacher Kobayashi is always encouraging children, always trying to erase their inferiority and inspire their self-confidence. He will specially design the rules of the competition for the physically disabled, so that he can win the first place in all competitions and still have confidence in his physically disabled body. He will constantly say "you are a good boy" to Xiao Doudou, so that Xiao Doudou's childhood has been immersed in this self-confidence and cheerfulness. Mr. Kobayashi's behavior really touched me. What great and selfless love is needed to make a person have such love and patience to treat these children and make their personality develop so soundly.
2. Family education and school education are complementary.
? What moved me was not only Ba Xueyuan, but also the principal's "special caring" education method, and Xiao Doudou's parents, especially her generous and kind mother, tolerated her and found a little flash in her body. I hope this kind of education and concept can be more popular. I often hear "looking at the old at the age of three", which means that a child's behavior can tell what kind of person he will become. More profoundly, it is because of the external factors such as childhood behavior habits and family environment, and more importantly, the satisfaction of the internal needs of love, which will affect a person's life.
3. For education, shaping people is more important than making achievements, guiding is more important than discipline, and personality is more important than norms.
The school that let Xiao Doudou drop out of school, and stand up as a teacher, is now normal. If parents hear what Xiao Doudou did at school, they will probably say, why are you so disobedient? We have no idea what the child's words and deeds really mean. We always impose what we think is right on others, especially children. Mr. Sousaku Kobayashi's concept, close to nature, independent study, hobbies, rhythmic gymnastics, etc. And learn to respect anyone, which can make children develop freely and healthily.
? As written in the postscript, many people wrote that in this competitive era, such a dream is not easy to realize even if you know it. A good school is a flash in the pan, and now it is a utopia. However, those dozens of children are valued, and they have a very happy childhood and adolescent life. They naturally develop good characters such as not giving others trouble, not doodling, being disciplined, treating others equally and caring for others' difficulties.
For children, what is a good education and how to educate them well, Ba Xueyuan provides us with a reference, and President Kobayashi gives us a list. As teachers, we should stand in the children's position and guide them with love and enthusiasm, instead of treating those naughty children as problem children. If you want to feel about education like President Kobayashi.