Pay attention to the method.

first

Boys hug him more and more every day. Boys' brains develop later than girls', so they need more care both psychologically and physically.

second

Treat boys as men, encourage them and praise them, especially dad.

third

Remember, what boys fear most is the threat of force. The more you beat and scold, the more counterproductive it is.

fourth

Treat boys as friends and communicate with them when you find problems.

fifth

Never blow your child's self-confidence, and the consequences will be unimaginable.

Beating and cursing is a traditional way to educate children. Nowadays, children can't be educated just by beating and cursing.

Children are rebellious in adolescence, especially blindly beating and cursing can easily make children hate.

Children are beaten and scolded without psychological preparation, and most of them will have two trends:

1. Children who obey their parents

Children are weak in heart and dare not resist the abuse of their parents.

In the long run, children will get into the habit of beating and cursing their parents, as we often say, "one ear goes in and the other ear goes out." On the surface, they seem to be following their parents' instructions, but in fact they don't know where they are wrong at all, and they silently bear this negative emotion.

The breeding of this kind of emotion will make boys become particularly timid and have no responsibility and responsibility.

2. Children who rebel against their parents

Many parents find that beating and cursing can still play a starting role when their children are younger. With the growth of children, beating and cursing become more and more frequent, but with little effect, most of them broke up in discord and did not solve the problem.

For parents, one is a child who is obedient and the other is a child who is born rebellious in his bones. I have an exclusive behavior towards the excessive discipline of my parents. I like to go against my parents. The more you beat and scold your child, the more rebellious you are.

In this way, children will become very unpleasant in the long run, and will naturally become the lawless Xiong Haizi in their parents' minds. Beating and scolding education is not the only way, and educating boys in another way may get twice the result with half the effort.