I think this book is worth reading by primary school parents. There are many educational methods for parents to learn and learn from. I also learned a lot after reading "Walking with Children through Primary School for Six Years". For children in primary school, developing good study habits is more important than learning knowledge, which is the basis of their lifelong learning. Don't pay too much attention to children's academic performance in primary school, forcing children to study hard will make them feel tired of learning, and then decades of study will be more painful for children, so parents should cultivate their children's study habits and reading habits to pave the way for future study.
There are two reading recommendations in the preface of the book, one is recommended by Dou Guimei, a national special-grade teacher, and the other is recommended by the author's daughter's kindergarten teacher. Among them, Dou Guimei recommended that parents not only need wisdom and endurance, but also need sunshine and an open mind to grow up with their children. The author also realizes that children's growth needs the participation of all family members, and dad plays an irreplaceable role in children's growth. The author's practice finally inspires parents to understand that children are a unique existence in the process of educating them. Parents should not be eager for quick success and instant benefit during their children's six-year primary school career. They should look at schools and children with an educational vision and psychology, and have more patience to let children grow up slowly.
Through his own personal experience, the author lists many real examples in detail and depicts a simple and natural life scene. The author advocates that parent-child relationship is the premise of family education, and insists on quality education and happy education. The author starts with five parts: life, reading, learning, personality and psychology, and reviews his children's growth footprints in primary school with simple and delicate brushstrokes. For example, in order to make children have a good reading habit, authors often choose bookstores as places for leisure communication. When cultivating children's patience, the author practices and plays puzzles with children, so that children can experience the attitude of "can't afford to lose".
There is no condescending guidance or stereotyped empty talk in the book, only bits and pieces from real life, just like the titles of each chapter: "Let children fall in love with learning magnets", "Family mailbox to enhance communication", "Family code to cultivate contract consciousness", books and periodicals scattered by mothers at will, welcome home ceremony designed by fathers "deliberately" ... This book is unique, effective and attentive everywhere. The book shows us that children's good habits will accompany them to the society and benefit them for life with their parents' words and deeds and silent companionship. As the author said, "Children are not your private property. He doesn't belong to you or me. He belongs to this country and this society after all. Don't blindly compare with others in children's academic performance because of vanity, otherwise it will affect the healthy growth of children. "
There are many stories that impressed me deeply, because some educational methods are very similar to those my parents taught me when I was a child. For example, the author's daughter never stopped raising small animals during her primary school. In their view, in the process of getting along with these little creatures, the daughter gradually realized the magic of life and established an attitude of fearing life and loving nature from an early age. In the process of taking good care of these small animals, my daughter's love and sense of responsibility are also cultivated unconsciously. These qualities need the careful guidance and support of parents to gradually develop. When I was in primary school, I also raised many small animals with the consent of my parents. When I was in primary school in Xi 'an, I kept a rabbit on the balcony. Xi 'an felt the earthquake during the Wenchuan earthquake, and there were aftershocks. I sleep in fear every night. There was an aftershock. I was watching TV at home and my mother pulled me out. I had to run with the rabbit in my arms. Unfortunately, the rabbit got lost in the end, and I cried for a long time. I have also raised turtles, dogs and other small animals, as well as silkworms. Through raising silkworms, I observed their lives, and I fed them mulberry leaves every day, fearing that they would be hungry, and gradually realized the patience and care of my parents in the process of raising me. In the process of raising animals, I gradually became caring and wanted to get in touch with nature. Joseph cornell said, "Nature is the best teacher." ?
What children lack most is the patience to finish one thing. In order to cultivate my daughter's patience, the author bought several 1000 puzzles for her to spell during her primary school. My daughter often takes a long time to finish a puzzle. Although the puzzle process was long and difficult, she finally finished it. Invisibly let her daughter know that only from the beginning to the end can she achieve real achievements and happiness, and also let her know the truth that "persistence is victory". I remember when I was a child, my mother also used other methods to cultivate my patience and let me peel a bowl of soybeans. Soybean is very small, and there are many soybeans in a bowl. At first, I thought it was a very easy thing. As a result, I lost my temper and didn't want to peel it in less than 10 minute, but my mother still asked me to peel it, saying that I wouldn't drink soy milk until I finished peeling it. Finally I cried, and my mother told me not to peel it. Although my mother also wants to cultivate my patience, I think her way is wrong, because in the end I didn't taste any sweetness brought by persistence. On the contrary, the author of this book just asked her daughter to spell this difficult problem because she was a little interested in it. It can be seen that parents still need to find out with heart and adopt appropriate educational methods to educate their children.