First, if I don't panic too much without affecting my children's study, just remind them appropriately. For example, don't do anything wrong, don't delay your study. I am glad that she likes a boy and her academic performance is still stable. I look forward to a childhood relationship. I hope my daughter and that boy can make progress together, and both of them can realize their dreams and be admitted to an ideal university. It would be great if they could get married.
Statement: Tell her that a pair of high school classmates were lovers, but they didn't delay their studies because of their love. One went to Tsinghua, the other went to Shanshi University, and both were in Beijing when they were graduate students. Then I got married. This is a perfect game.
I hope she takes the boy home and wants to meet him. What charm makes my daughter like him?
I think it is necessary for me to guide my children to talk about a mature love. No objection, welcome.
Second, if my daughter's grades drop because of puppy love, I need to talk to her. Let her father talk to her.
I will tell her that I once liked the boys in my class when I was in junior high school. As a result, I didn't pay attention to the class and my study plummeted. Later, I was scolded by the class teacher, and then the seat was transferred away. I am also awake, immersed in my study again, and my grades have risen again.
In high school, I was admitted to the same high school as that boy, but I was in the key class and he was in the ordinary class. I saw him at that time, but everyone was gone and there was no aura.
There was a girl in the class who fell in love, and it was useless to be admitted to high school later. When we met excellent boys in college, she had to follow her parents to sell fish and vegetables in the street.
I will also tell her that girls are fragile because of physical reasons and ask her to pay attention to protecting herself.
I will let her father show himself and tell her what a good man is and what qualities he should have.
Of course, I will find that boy and talk to him to see if that boy is worth dating. I will also get in touch with the boy's parents to discuss countermeasures.
In any case, beating and cursing is definitely not the way to push children further and further.
In fact, you can take your daughter to several famous universities all over the country to have a look, and let her see what is the age of falling in love and what is a real handsome guy.
If the family atmosphere is good, the child's so-called puppy love will be like Bai Juyi's poem: "A long dream of spring seems to be nowhere to be found in the clouds." If it is a noisy family or a divorced family, such children will have more psychological problems, and only when they lack care will they seek the warmth of the outside world. In this case, parents should make more efforts. The child may take a detour, but as long as her parents always care about her, she will take the right path.