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My daughter found puppy love at the age of 14! I'm a single dad! How to educate children! My grandparents always brought it! Now live with me!
1. Don't be a father ~ Make friends with your daughter first ~ Because sometimes it is easier and more direct for friends to discuss emotional problems ~ Especially, did you have a good family relationship before ~ So, get close to your daughter first ~ Let's talk about the rest ~

2. The word "puppy love" remains to be discussed and defined ~ Love is love, so there is no sooner or later ~ Of course, this question involves domestic culture and concepts ~ I won't answer too many questions ~ It's just that if I were my daughter, I wouldn't use such ambiguous and irregular words to describe her innocent and natural feelings ~

3. If you think that "puppy love" is not good, it will cause unforgivable principled harm to your daughter, so you want to try to stop it, then I suggest you make sure whether she is really "puppy love" first ~ because it is also possible that she is really a very good friend of the opposite sex ~ If parents make arbitrary judgments, it may not only hurt the child, but also arouse the child's rebellious psychology, and turn the feelings that are not "puppy love" originally.

4, if it is really "puppy love", I think, if it is the child's true feelings, rather than the influence of watching too many idol dramas, it's okay to fall in love ~ Please look at those young people now, who don't know love, can't express love, or misunderstand love, wrongly express love ~ We are meaningless or have wrong educational concepts, resulting in too many incompetent people ~ So, learn to love, really love ~ you parents, It's very hard and great ~ but it's actually what parents should do to teach their children how to love ~ and even if she gets hurt in this process (different from the injury mentioned in Article 3), it's not necessarily a bad thing to get hurt. After the injury, she will be stronger and cherish herself more ~

5. If you can't accept Article 4, please don't forcibly stop it ~ You can communicate with your daughter and express your thoughts and concerns patiently and calmly ~ You can raise it and hope that she will think it over when she is older ~ I hope she can make you stop worrying ~ Be sincere ~ Be gentle ~ This is also the basic requirement of negotiation ~ Don't give orders as a father ~ Because history has proved that under such circumstances,

All the above must be based on 1. You are close enough to your daughter's heart ~

It will be difficult and embarrassing for a single father to educate children, especially girls ~ ~ I admire a father like you ~ I haven't become a father yet, but I have seen, heard and thought a lot ~ After seeing the problem you described, I will write down some things I know here ~ I hope it will help you ~

Personally, I think the best way to educate children is "love education" ~ with love as the central purpose, with the approach of the heart as the basic condition, with help and guidance instead of command and guidance, with a correct attitude ~ May you and your daughter grow up together ~ Come on ~