Co-founder of Doraemon Children's Design Institute

Family parent-child relationship counselor

Bachelor of Business Administration and Criminal Investigation

From a female special police officer to a single mother who owes her ex-husband more than 6 million yuan, and then to the establishment of Doraemon Children's Design Institute, Xinyu has experienced ups and downs all the way.

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I gave up my career as a female special police officer for love, but I got cheated by my husband after marriage.

Xin Yu is the only daughter in the family. After graduating from the University of Political Science and Law, she successfully became a female special police officer in China. She worked hard with her comrades and carried a gun. During the days of the special police brigade, Xinyu had seen someone's family break up because of drug abuse, and had witnessed the painful scene of his comrades-in-arms dying in the Wenchuan earthquake rescue.

Later, Xinyu dated a boyfriend. After dating her boyfriend for four months, she decided to marry him and gave up her career as a special police officer. At the same time, she gave up all her life and went to Shenzhen with her boyfriend.

Running for love, giving up all the stable life, making family and friends ignore Xinyu's decision and choice. In order to prove to family and friends and establish a foothold in Shenzhen as soon as possible, Xinyu runs an electronics factory while studying.

Soon after the marriage, Xinyu became pregnant. After giving birth to her daughter, she became a full-time mother and lived a life of caring for her husband and educating her children.

I thought life would always be so happy and peaceful. Who would have thought that when Xinyu was pregnant with a second child, her husband cheated.

When Xinyu was pregnant with a second child, her husband began not to go home every day. Even when the second child is about to be born, her husband is not around. She drove to the hospital alone for nearly an hour, then hung up the maternity number and stayed in the maternity bed for less than 5 minutes before giving birth to her son. Xin Yu said that she still clearly remembers crying on the delivery bed at that time.

It made her give up completely. In order to get a divorce as soon as possible, Xinyu would rather leave home cleanly. The only requirement is to get custody of her son and daughter.

For the love of going to Shenzhen, she became a single mother who raised two children alone six years later.

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After the divorce, I found myself burdened with a huge loan.

I thought I could start a new life after I got custody of a pair of children. Often, life will give you a heavy blow.

Xinyu's ex-husband made two loans in her name during their marriage. Not only that, her ex-husband tricked Xinyu's father into signing another loan agreement and became the guarantor of the loan.

These three loans made Xinyu inexplicably bear more than 6 million debts. At that time, the rain was still in the dark, and it was not until the people from the court and the bank came to the door that the truth of the matter was discovered.

After the divorce, the ex-husband didn't even give a pair of children's support once, and even completely forgot after the loan came out. Like Lao Lai, her ex-husband disappeared without a trace.

Obviously, it was her ex-husband's manipulation, but Xinyu became the person who paid for her ex-husband. But the bank doesn't care why you have an affair. They only think that you borrowed the money, signed it and paid it back.

In order to repay the loan, in desperation, Xinyu sold the house in Shenzhen and rented a house outside with her son and daughter.

The house in Shenzhen has sold more than 4 million yuan, and now Xinyu is still burdened with more than 2 million debts.

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In order to cure her daughter's nervous anxiety, she embarked on the road of psychological education for children's painting.

The change of marriage and the burden of huge loans have invisibly affected my 5-year-old daughter. Xinyu's daughter began to become timid and nervous. Every time I take the elevator, I walk to the corner of the elevator, turn my back on everyone, cover my ears and shake all over. According to the doctor's diagnosis, Xinyu's daughter suffers from nervous anxiety.

The change of marriage did not make Xin Yu collapse, but her daughter's anxiety made Xin Yu blame herself and burst into tears. In order to restore her daughter's confidence and smile, Xinyu has done a lot of reading and research in children's education, especially in design thinking and painting psychology.

Xinyu's daughter likes painting very much, but Xinyu can't understand what her daughter's paintings want to express. So she led her daughter to tell her own painting story. In this way, Xinyu slowly discovered that painting is a way to express emotions.

After observing Xinyu for a long time, I found that when my daughter painted, she especially liked to draw in the lower left corner of a piece of A4 paper. At first, she thought it was a wrong painting habit, so she tried to guide her daughter to draw in the middle of the paper and make the pattern bigger, but found the guiding process difficult.

In order to understand her daughter's behavior, Xinyu began to search for relevant knowledge. I gradually contacted and studied painting psychology and painting therapy.

Through painting psychology, Xin Yu not only cured her daughter's nervous anxiety, but also solved the problem of children's education of many friends around her.

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Founding Children's Design Institute and Starting a New Journey in Life

Through painting psychology, she cured her daughter's anxiety, which gave Xin Yu great confidence and encouragement. An idea slowly emerged in Xinyu's heart and became clear: I want to help more children and families through my own strength.

Think of it and do it. Xinyu took the spirit of being a female special police officer and joined hands with experts in the field of children's design thinking to set up Doraemon Children's Design Institute, an education and training institution for children's design thinking.

Doraemon Children's Design Institute has received more than 200 students in two months with innovative teaching methods and elaborate courses since the first four classrooms. A year later, three campuses were expanded.

Xin Yu said that Doraemon painting is different from other education and training institutions on the market, and it is a design education that returns to the "heart". Through painting language, parents can be guided to see their children's love and the energy of love between families can flow.

Therefore, Doraemon painting won a very good reputation. It was not only shortlisted in the eight fine arts industries with a good reputation in Shenzhen education in 20 17, but also rated as a member of Shenzhen Education and Training Industry Association and a member of the Industry Self-discipline Committee.

In the past two years, Doraemon Painting and Design Institute has served more than 800 families, helped more than 1000 children with the method of design thinking, and really changed their living habits and learning methods.

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It is easy to start a business, but difficult to maintain.

Although Doraemon Children's Design Institute has won a good reputation and expanded its scale in a short time, the road to entrepreneurship is not smooth sailing.

Problems such as expansion risk, sudden withdrawal of partners, being cheated by suppliers, and being complained by peers once put the school of design into crisis.

After closing three expanded campuses, Xinyu has been firmly operating the base camp. Although I often suffer from insomnia all night and cry in the middle of the night, Xinyu gritted her teeth and survived looking at so many lovely children and so many parents who supported Doraemon.

People who haven't cried all night are not enough to talk about life.

In the process of chatting, Xinyu excitedly said to me, "I love my career very much, and education is worth doing all my life!" " So now I am extremely confident every day, because I have done a very awesome career. At the same time, I am very practical and work hard at every step! I always believe that education is the influence of one life on another and the touch of one soul on another. This is the significance of my founding Doraemon Painting Children's Design Institute. "

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Create online courses for children to practice "super brain"

At the beginning of February this year, Xinyu and her team polished an online course. In order to develop the design thinking of 6- 12-year-old children, Doraemon launched a video course of hand-written newspapers.

The course adopts the design thinking methodology of Stanford University in the United States. In a scientific, interesting and easy-to-understand way, let children quickly learn how to highlight the theme, how to choose pictures and how to typeset. In the whole learning process, children's interest will become stronger and stronger, and they will become more and more confident. At the same time, it can cultivate their good study habits.

Do you know I'm waiting for you?

Editor's words:

Sister Xinyu is busy with home visits every day to sort out the work for the team. I talk to her almost after ten o'clock at night. Sister Xinyu's tenacity and momentum deeply touched me.

Marriage gave her a knife, her daughter got sick and gave her a knife, and her partner and colleague gave her another knife. This stabbing made her beat herself bloody all day.

There is a poem in Tagore's Birds: The world kissed my soul with its pain and asked for a song in return.

The world kissed me in pain and asked me to sing. Sister Xinyu did it.

If life is dog blood, Sister Xin Yu turned the story of dog blood against the wind and walked out of her own style.

There is also good news for everyone. Sister Xinyu has already started suing her ex-husband. Bitch, every man has his own day. If you don't believe me, look up. God forgives everyone.

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