Parenting brings more and more pressure to parents, and parents pay more attention to the concept of "gifted children". Therefore, in the process of parenting, parents pay more attention to the quality of education for their children. The two-child policy is gradually relaxed, but as long as there is one child, the family type of the only child is also common. In the one-child family, many children tend to be alone in their behavior, and there are some difficulties in their communication with their peers, which is related to the children's personality, but it is undeniable that the growth environment has an impact. Parents guide the only child in this way, and the doll's interpersonal skills are exercised and the fun of growing up is obtained.

My friend's child is three years old and usually doesn't like to go out. I prefer to play with toys quietly at home. According to friends, she is a "little house girl". When children don't go to kindergarten, this state of being alone won't cause much distress. However, as children enter the yard and have more contact with colleagues, many differences arise. Children are not interested in games played by their peers, unwilling to share toys with colleagues, and need a rich and interesting hospitalization life, which do not seem to bring happiness and happiness to children. In fact, this kind of independent behavior, such as friends' children, is more common. Especially when the environment changes, babies often show behaviors that are not in harmony with the environment.

This kind of baby prefers to stay at home rather than go out, and is not interested in external environmental stimuli. Being alone will make children more comfortable, and children will consciously avoid going out. In the collective environment, the relationship with colleagues will become a certain obstacle, and it will be impossible to handle the relationship with colleagues well, and it will conflict with the games that need to cooperate with each other, preferring the types of games that one person can play. All my toys are hard to play with my colleagues actively. During the game, they also tend to attach importance to their own ideas, pay less attention to their colleagues' feelings, and are unwilling to actively cooperate with others. At the same time, parents found that the proportion of only children who like to travel alone is very large. This situation is related to the child's own personality and environmental influence.

Among children's personality characteristics, natural love of solitude is also a common type of personality expression. The environment of solitude makes the child's heart more stable, without anxiety and little enthusiasm for interpersonal relationships. As the only child in the family, the only child naturally lacks the opportunity to get along with his brothers and sisters in the living environment, and may have insufficient understanding of sharing in emotional expression. Parents' overprotection of their children also reduces the chances of contact with their peers. In addition, due to overindulgence, children are accustomed to self-centered behavior, behave more selfishly, and feel no happiness in getting along with colleagues. Appropriate parental intervention will help improve children's social skills and enable them to get along with their peers better, but at the same time, parents should not be too strong. We should start with improving the living environment and subtly influence children's behavior.

This long-term unique personality is not a benign growth environment for children, and our parents should concentrate on guiding and improving. When children keep in full contact with the outside world, they can find their interested parts in the external environment, thus increasing their time out. At the same time, children's interpersonal skills will also be exercised when they are away from home. Parents help their children feel the pleasure of being friendly with their peers, and children are more willing to participate in the game interaction with their peers. It can guide children to play many interactive games and improve their enthusiasm to contact with their peers in the game.

Parents also understand that children naturally like to be alone and insist on changing their children, so don't worry. In the step-by-step process, give children enough time and space to change, while respecting their emotional feedback. Only children lack opportunities to get along with their brothers and sisters in their living environment, and it is easy for them to make unique behaviors when they grow up. In the face of children's behavioral characteristics, parents should pay full attention to guiding their children to actively integrate into the collective environment. In the relationship with colleagues, I have exercised my interpersonal skills and gained more fun.