When he didn't go home for a year, the two brothers and sisters went home. He never dreamed of it. When he got home, they saw a very surprising scene. He found that his mother had left and his father lived alone. But when I got home, I saw his father's house as a mess as a warehouse and a garbage dump. The two brothers and sisters blamed themselves very much, and then they spent a big week, Saturday and Sunday, cleaning up their homes, and then they suddenly realized. Just as they were cleaning the room, they found a letter in his father's desk. They wanted to throw it away, but they didn't. This letter is actually very simple, and its main content is:
"When we are old, we are all old, and we are no longer the original us. Please be your child's understanding of us, be patient with us, and don't dislike our nagging all day. Not all for your own good. As the saying goes, if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer.
Don't blame us when we spill food on our clothes. Please think about how we feed you by ourselves. When we are incontinent, we will dirty our clothes. Don't complain that we are slow. Please think about how we wiped your excrement and urine when you were young. When we forget the theme, please give us some time to think. It doesn't really matter what we say. As long as you are listening to us, we are satisfied.
Filial piety is not necessarily material and money. You should always care about us as long as you can. Bring us a cup of hot tea after supper. Go out with us to chat with our neighbors on sunny days. When you get married and have children, you can take them home and show them to us. You will be happy. Don't be sad when you watch us grow old until we are hunched over and our eyes are dim. This is the law of nature. Understand us and support us. At the beginning, we led you on the road of life. Now, please accompany us to finish the last journey and give us more love. We will be grateful and return your grateful smile, which is our infinite love for you.
Old cats piss from generation to generation. Can you change this proverb and upload it in your life? "
See if the requirements of the elderly are not high. Do you find that what he said is the same as what our ancestors said? Filial piety is not just throwing a few dollars. "Dogs and horses can be raised, disrespectful, why not?" Say to me loudly: first, filial piety, in fact, everyone will be old, and taking care of the elderly means taking care of our own future. So this is called old, old, old; Young, young, young. Tell me loudly that you should honor your parents quickly, agree? Agreed.
Zhu Dexiao comes first. Therefore, there is a knife under the word "old" of the old man. Replace the knife with the word "child" for the child. What does that word mean? China's words of "filial piety" have rich connotations. The word "teaching" in education is a filial piety, plus a cultural "text". Unfilial and not teaching. Come on, close your eyes and look at yourself. In fact, it is difficult for a person to know himself. He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise. We are talking about the diversity of communication objects, so think about it, will you interact with those people you just remembered? Including your parents, do you interact with your parents? These two people are the people who gave birth to your life. Without them, there would be no you.
Many people kowtow in the temple, but your parents are your living buddhas. Do you respect them? So ask Confucius what filial piety means. Confucius said that it is not filial piety if you can support the elderly. He said, "All dogs and horses can be raised, so why not?" This sentence is telling you that filial piety is mainly about attitude.
Caring people will be born kind, kind people will be born happy, and happy people will be born elegant. Another time, his disciples asked Confucius, what is filial piety? Confucius said two words-"color is difficult." This color, of course, refers to the color of the face, the color of the face. But as you know, a person "lives with each other and has feelings for each other."
In fact, your skin color is caused by your inner self. How can a person without love be kind? How can a person without kindness have pleasure? How can you be graceful without pleasing colors!
Think about the people you experienced as a child. Do you interact well with them? Do you remember your childhood friends? Remember when you were young, taking care of your aunt in kindergarten? Those childhood friends who spent good time with you? Everyone, can you remember their names? How much can you remember? How many people can you remember who gave you happiness and childhood in your life? Do you remember? What's your aunt's name? Do you remember? Forgetting the past is tantamount to betrayal. Do you remember who taught you the first lesson in life? Who is your first teacher? What's his name? Pupils, how many names can you remember? How many people are still impressed in your mind? Can you be human? Do you know what human beings are? What was the name of the head teacher when you were in middle school? You can't forget him Is he still here? Have you ever thanked him? Did you see him during the holiday? Have you ever received a greeting call or a blessing call? Are you a good person? Who will be your tutor after you go to college? Do you remember those noble people in your life after you entered the society? When you were in the most difficult time, did you repay those who helped you and provided you with career opportunities, job opportunities and wealth opportunities? Are you good to them?
Think about it and reflect on yourself. The leaders of your unit, the colleagues who started your business with you, the employees who support you and your career, and the customers who let you grow and develop, are you good to them? If you are indifferent to what I say, let's start with the basics.
Filial piety; Be filial when you leave; If you sincerely believe, you will love all people; If you are kind and have spare capacity, you should study literature.
I can't even communicate with my parents, nor can I be filial. This is the father and mother who gave birth to you, raised you and gave you life. I remember when I finished my class in Jincheng, a boss who opened a bath center said that he had opened a bath center for four years and didn't massage his father or make soles for his mother. He said that when he went home at night, he took his father's hand to watch. His hands were covered with calluses, and he cried. When he hit his father on the back, he said that when he put his hand on his father's back, tears could not stop. Lying on the ground since childhood, the straight back that let him ride a horse has long been bent. The man was riding around his neck, and his spine could not stand up long ago. Can you see it? Dad is old. Filial piety cannot wait. He said he took his mother's hand and wanted to cut his nails. He couldn't bear it any longer, and the soft hands that took him to school were exposed. You just know that dad is old and mom is old. Only then did I remember that when I studied my mother's face carefully, I found wrinkles on her face and her eyes were dim. He looked at his mother's white hair, and he felt that he could not find it. One, two, can you check? However, you should reflect on yourself. How can a person who is bad to his parents communicate well with the team? How can brothers and sisters lead a good team if they don't get along well? Reflect on yourself, extend the love for parents to brothers and sisters, extend the love for brothers and sisters to teams, then to enterprises, to countries and to the world. This is called "self-cultivation, governing the country and leveling the world".
"The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind does not stop. The son wants to raise and not kiss." . What did you do for him? Don't think that throwing two dollars is filial piety.
Do things with your heart and behave with your feelings. But so far today, have you accompanied them across the street? But what did you do for them?
No matter how rich you are, no matter how old you are, role is character. In fact, we interact with a variety of people. Just now, in these few minutes of thinking, you evaluated yourself. Which role do you think you've played? Which role is good? Which role is excellent?
Filial piety governs the family, middle filial piety governs the enterprise and great filial piety governs the country.