I have read too many books, so I can't help but summarize them. The most unforgettable thing is that the relationship between teachers and students and the feelings between parents and children in the book are like an ethereal utopia, but sometimes they can pull people back from the unattainable heaven to the cruel world. There are wars, poverty, power, courage, discouragement, nobility and meanness in the book, but only that quiet love is intoxicating, so dazzling and natural. Just like in spring, when she tapped the hard ice with her toes, she could hear the tinkling sound of spring water, and you could also see the bare young trees sprouting and blooming green. When you fall asleep after reading under the lamp at night, you will dream that you are a bird, singing and jumping lightly; When I read that Amrico's father prevented Amrico from wiping the lime powder left by the "masons" on the back of the chair with his hands, I was more like reading an old silent movie, but I was moved and found myself in the warm sun in March. It is extremely glorious to read that the sick husband found his shadow because of overwork and sadness.
What impressed me most about Education of Love was "kissing" and "caressing". "Kissing" between teachers and students, parents kissing children, health kissing disease, wealth kissing poverty, students kissing soldiers, businessmen kissing workers; There are also teachers' comforts for bad students, fathers' caresses for children, children's resentment for parents, old classmates' love for new classmates, and those who are proud of themselves comfort those who are frustrated. It seems that this book wouldn't be called "Education of Love" without kissing and caressing, so I remembered the kiss of the team doctor when Yao Ming was injured and fell to the ground, and my daughter, so I put on my clothes and gently pushed the door, leaving a deep kiss mark on my daughter's face. When my mood calmed down a little, I picked it up again and relived this utopian kiss. Of course, there are always kisses, and the last chapter of the book, Goodbye, is all kisses.
The education of love only stays in the love of teachers and students, and the love of family, perhaps beyond pedagogy. In our country, love for the motherland has always been the first priority. Patriotic Youth gave us an extremely shocking lesson. It tells the story of a ragged boy who returned to his hometown of Genoa, Italy by boat from Barcelona. Many hypocritical people on the road gave him a lot of money to show off, and several of them even satirized the people in the juvenile country: "inferior citizens, robbers." The furious teenager angrily threw these coins at the head of the person who gave him the money and solemnly shouted, "I don't want anything from the person who spoke ill of our country."
/kloc-Italy at the end of 0/9th century is very similar to China at the beginning of 2/kloc-0th century, with crude handicraft workshops and businessmen who made a fortune by monopolizing capital and technology, among which the article Charcoal Vendors and Gentlemen is particularly prominent. Fabius, who thinks his father is a gentleman, is very arrogant and has a conflict with his son Patty, who sells charcoal. Fabius knew he was wrong and said, "Your father is a beggar!" " "When fabius's father learned about this, he grabbed his son's arm and pulled him to Patty's side, saying," Apologize quickly! "The charcoal seller tried to stop him, but this gentleman didn't. He forced his son to falter and apologize to the charcoal seller and shake hands with him. The story is concise, but it gives us profound enlightenment in modern education, just as the teacher said to the students afterwards: "Don't forget today's things. Because this is the best lesson this school year.
Of course, what excites me most in the book is the affection between parents and children, and the children's attachment and love for their parents. Meanwhile, a pair of children heard that their father's business was frustrated and took the initiative to ask their mother to give up future gifts, even in terms of diet. My father heard all this. The next day, parents bought presents and quietly put them under the sleeping child's pillow. Another article, The Guardian of Dad, tells the story of a teenager named Sisillo who went to the hospital to take care of his sick father who came back from work in France. Due to the careful care of the teenagers, the "father" in the hospital bed has improved. At this time, the real father of the teenager saw the teenager. It turns out that Sisillo served the wrong person. However, the teenager still insisted on serving the "father" in a foreign land until the patient died peacefully with the teenager.
Education of Love doesn't have much space to describe teachers and students, but it is so exquisite that people can't leave. In the book, the teacher has the following characteristics: the surface is strict, the essence is very kind, the clothes are simple, and he is weak because of long-term fatigue. Students like to play jokes on their teachers, but they love their husbands very much. The students in the book have great freedom. To my surprise, their frolicking in class was unprecedented in China. These students give their teachers nicknames, throw paper balls at the substitute teachers, jump around on the podium and make a scene, but they are often kissed and forgiven by the teachers. For example, the teacher at the beginning said to the child who made a mistake in this tone: "Go back quickly! Good boy! "
Mr. Tao Xingzhi once said: "Love is a great power. Without love, there is no education ",and the most effective means of education is" education of love ". The reason why Education of Love surpasses any pedagogy or introduction to pedagogy is that her meticulous and silent feelings always run through it, just like Julie Ender, the heroine of The Sound of Music, leads her children to wander in the green nature, and everything grows naturally with her, but she finds meaningful poetry and endless fun in this painful growth process. Caring for others, respecting others, understanding others and urging others are the highlights of this book. I think this is probably the most lacking education in China!