Parents play a great role in children's growth, both materially and spiritually. Materially, parents provide their children with food, clothing, housing and transportation, so that their children can grow up healthily. Don't ignore the function of matter, it is not advisable to talk about spirit without matter. The material conditions provided by parents to their children are the foundation, just like raising a pot of flowers, there must be a pot, and the material conditions are this pot. Only by relying on this pot can children grow up healthily and realize themselves. Imagine that if a child's childhood is spent in exile, it can be said that it is difficult for him to concentrate on the growth of his mind, and how can he talk about his thoughts when he is hungry?
If the material support provided by parents to children is a flowerpot, then family education is sunshine, rain and dew, and fertilizer. Without these children, they cannot grow up healthily. Whether it is a poor family or a well-off family, the weight of family education can not be ignored. For poor families, family education is endless hope in the predicament. Without good family education, children's growth will have no light of life. In fact, family education is equally important for families with excellent family conditions. Because real life means a lot of suffering, only through suffering can children develop the ability to cope with difficulties. At this time, it is also the proper meaning of family education to let children suffer.