The first father: "Did you fight back?"

The children were fighting in the kindergarten and the teacher called the parents. Dad rushed over when he heard the news Hearing what happened, he secretly asked the child if he had resisted. The child nodded, and the father was relieved to deal with the child's fight. It can be seen that when this father educates his children at ordinary times, he pursues the principle that he can't suffer losses, and he can't win without fighting.

Don't run, don't cry, but take the initiative to return it. Even if you can't win, you won't suffer psychologically. Tell each other that I am not easy to mess with. Such a child will have the courage to fight back and will not submit to humiliation in the future.

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The second father: "Who won?"

The second father blurted out when he heard the children fighting. Who won? If the child takes the initiative to beat others, it is shameful to be beaten. If he is beaten by someone else, he must beat the other person to admit defeat. This father pays more attention to results. No matter what the process is, the most important thing is that the child wins.

This father must have instilled the concept of winning or losing in the process of educating his children. He asked the children to take the initiative and strive for everything. Such children are used to winning and become more competitive and enterprising when they grow up, but they should also pay attention to their usual guidance. Too sharp is not necessarily a good thing.

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The third father: "You will be scolded if you go."

The child hit another child, and the third father hesitated whether to go to school after receiving the phone call from the teacher. When someone asked him why, he blurted it out and was scolded when he went in. It can be seen that he usually teaches his children not to fight, and even if they encounter others hitting themselves, they should stay away.

If a child is in trouble, his first thought is whether he will be scolded. Do you want to lose face? It can be expected that he will apologize again and again when he sees the teacher and the other parents. Even if his child didn't stir up trouble first and was beaten by the other party, he would try his best to calm things down and choose not to take it out on the child. Such a father will educate his children to be weak and timid. He will gradually become timid and hide when he is not provoked. His character is full of inferiority and cowardice.