Anger and violence are not the solutions to children's mistakes. This kind of education will only hurt children's hearts and aggravate rebellion. The real change begins with the inner peace of parents. Gentle education makes love a bridge of communication, not an emotional catharsis.
Listen calmly and understand the child's voice.
When the child's emotions are out of control, try cold treatment to give yourself and your child a buffer time. Take a deep breath to calm your mind, then have a sincere dialogue with your children and listen to their real thoughts.
Not to people, but to wisdom.
In the face of children's mistakes, criticism is not the purpose. Tell children clearly which behaviors are not desirable and why, and guide them how to act correctly. For example, when they stand by a dangerous window, they don't simply criticize, but guide them to understand the consequences of doing so and learn to protect themselves.
Emotional management, for better education.
There is no need to rush into success when encountering thorny educational problems. Short-term leave, relaxation, or looking for support are all aimed at better returning to children and giving them the education and guidance they deserve.